re: Is it wrong of me...

Quoting ~*SingleMommy*~:" i dont think its "wrong" of you, personally i enjoy having my daughter with me 24/7. It would break my heart to have her BD take her for a bit."

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Quoting ~*SingleMommy*~:" i dont think its "wrong" of you, personally i enjoy having my daughter with me 24/7. It would break my heart to have her BD take her for a bit."

same lol

Quoting Noneya Business:" The fact that I'm already failing a class because every time I try to read a chapter of my book it ... [snip!] ... so I can try to get some of my work done but his "friend" and her friend decided to throw him a party for his birthday."

you sound like a bitter irresponsbile teenager.

you probably should have put your child up for adoption, im sure the kid would have a MUCH better life. im sorry you're struggling, but that just proves that you made the wrong decision. sorry your kid is so awful you cant study.

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" you sound like a bitter irresponsbile teenager. you probably should have put your child up for adoption, ... [snip!] ... im sorry you're struggling, but that just proves that you made the wrong decision. sorry your kid is so awful you cant study."</blockquote>




That's quite rude! You're making a huge judgement with out the whole story we only know what she has told us but any intelligent human being know we leave huge amounts out of stories, we know nothing of her or her life, if you dont have something constructive or nice to say you should not comment at all. if you chose to judge others so harshly they will judge you harshly as well.

'/wQuoting shes*almost*one!:" you sound like a bitter irresponsbile teenager. you probably should have put your child up for adoption, ... [snip!] ... im sorry you're struggling, but that just proves that you made the wrong decision. sorry your kid is so awful you cant study."

Wow. Seriously? I am a bit bitter. Sorry that the person who I was supposed to get married to, had a savings for it an actually had a date set, decided he only wants LO when it's convent for him. Is it really wrong to be bitter? It's extremely hurtful. I barely get by with things I need. I go without eating because I make sure my son eats first and has clothes and I'm able to pay for daycare. And yes, I know there could have put him up for adoption, but I didn't. I'm human. I need to get out once in a while. And there's a lot of pressure this semester. I need at least a 3.8 to get into my program. I work on top of going to school.

Quoting Noneya Business:" To want BD to step up for LO? Like I want him to be able to have LO certain days of the week so I can ... [snip!] ... human for a change? So I can go out without having to worry? I know BD will never step up but I'd do anything if he would."

i feel the same way and now that he's up and went to the other side of the country it's all i can do is want it. i feel sooo brought down because i struggle everyday and i'm run ragged by these kids while he gets to play single with his new gf and her kids, while his kid is here not knowing where or even who he is. pos bds.

Quoting .::.Mama Bunnie.::.:" i feel the same way and now that he's up and went to the other side of the country it's all i can do ... [snip!] ... while he gets to play single with his new gf and her kids, while his kid is here not knowing where or even who he is. pos bds."

That's how I feel. And I feel so bad for LO. I don't know how I will tell him in the future why his dad isn't around if he doesn't step up.

Quoting Noneya Business:" Wow. Seriously? I am a bit bitter. Sorry that the person who I was supposed to get married to, had ... [snip!] ... And there's a lot of pressure this semester. I need at least a 3.8 to get into my program. I work on top of going to school."

look, there are moms on here with 2,3,4 kids without the babies dads help! My daugther is two and i went almost 2 years with it just being her and i. I went to school, worked FOUR DIFFERENT SMALL JOBS, Had no family to help at the time, didnt go on welfare or food stamps..ect. Its hard, but lots of us do it, but we amde the decision to do it. so you have to toughen up, i haddent gone out till she was 19 months old for my FIRST TIME WITHOUT HER, and you know where too? the casino, with my mom and dad and sister, not to party or anything, and i wouldnt trade this life for the world, I would never want bethanys birth father to take her because I dont have my own time.Its my choice. im not going to force him to be a dad, i made sure he wasnt in the picture when he decided to not be apart of it.

Quoting Gigi❤:" look, there are moms on here with 2,3,4 kids without the babies dads help! My daugther is two and i ... [snip!] ... my choice. im not going to force him to be a dad, i made sure he wasnt in the picture when he decided to not be apart of it."

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i have been doing it 3 years. I am happy to do it, and i am ok that her father has never met her. He is an abusive prick and i consider myself lucky he left.

Quoting Noneya Business:" Wow. Seriously? I am a bit bitter. Sorry that the person who I was supposed to get married to, had ... [snip!] ... And there's a lot of pressure this semester. I need at least a 3.8 to get into my program. I work on top of going to school."

you're pathetic.

take care of your kid. stop bitching about your kids father, and step up to the damn plate. you have ONE smurfing kid to take care of. its not that hard. boo hoo he shuts your book on you (((( eye roll!!!!!))))

i didnt look at your profile, but i'd be very surprised if you're over 19.

no one cares about your kids dad. try being a mother to your chld instead of trying to place so much blame and responsibility on the childs father. you're luckly you're in school. if you care, you can make it work... with ONE friggin child.

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" you're pathetic. take care of your kid. stop bitching about your kids father, and step up to the ... [snip!] ... on the childs father. you're luckly you're in school. if you care, you can make it work... with ONE friggin child."

Yep. I never take care of my son. Good job for seeing that. You took what I was saying way to heart and idk why.

ETA: And so sorry I really don't want my son to feel like he was abandoned. I have to hear how badly it will effect him from my dad, his dad left and started a new family when he was only 5 months old. Also, my boyfriend pretty much went through the same thing. I see how much it hurts them and it hurts me that he doesn't realize what he's doing. And yes, I'd like to be able to get out and clear my head and be able to get into my program for college.

no!! its normal.