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Uh... If they're your friends, shouldn't matter.
No, you shouldn't bring it up. If he doesn't want to tell you, he doesn't have to.


You have no reason to freak out.

Who cares? He's still the same person, gay or not. Yeah, I would be kind of sort of weirded out if one of my ex's turned out to be gay. But it's not really that big of a deal.

I think you should leave it alone until you hear it from his lips. Not all gay men fit the rainbow, glitter, and drag queen stereotype.

Quoting MOMSTA:" So I just got a call from a friend who is drunk and gay! Most of the time its funny ... not tonight. ... [snip!] ... for him because if he were anybody else I would be but Im so confused. Has this happened to anyone else?? What did you do? "

It hasn't happened to me. I wouldn't care if it did though. Sexual preferance doesn't define character. I would probably laugh off the convo and wish them both well.

....I don't see the big deal? It's not like you and him just broke up or anything. Not trying to be bitchy, I just really don't see why it would bother you.

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Uh... If they're your friends, shouldn't matter. No, you shouldn't bring it up. If he doesn't want to tell you, he doesn't have to. You have no reason to freak out."

Agreed. Who gives a damn if he's gay.

I had an ex that decided he was bisexual while dating me. He fooled around with my gay best friend. I was ONLY mad that he didnt tell me... I have the policy with SO's that if they are bi, they are free to do stuff with a guy as long as I know. If im in the dark... Ill be pissed.

I guess he just isn't ready to tell you and you should leave it at that and don't let it effect your friendship.

I just get really ticked at the whole "he hunts and fishes" line. I mean, what if a DANCER was STRAIGHT!?!? OMG! ARE YOU KIDDING ME!?!?!

Quoting FroggysMommy:" I just get really ticked at the whole "he hunts and fishes" line. I mean, what if a DANCER was STRAIGHT!?!? OMG! ARE YOU KIDDING ME!?!?!"

I found that a little off, too. The most masculine man I know is gay. He's like 6 feet tall, has a six pack, a deep voice with a great Irish accent, he does construction, does MMA and goes to the shooting range in his free time, and various other "manly" things. He gets so pissed that everyone is like, "Oh well you don't act/look gay." He tends to say things like, "Well I'm pretty good at sucking cock" in reply.

Quoting Mama to William + 1:" I found that a little off, too. The most masculine man I know is gay. He's like 6 feet tall, has a six ... [snip!] ... is like, "Oh well you don't act/look gay." He tends to say things like, "Well I'm pretty good at sucking cock" in reply."

 
I don't get how one "acts gay" or is supposed to.
Are there people that honestly think every gay man is flamboyant, girly, and high fashion? How narrow minded.  

I guess she means it just came as a shock?
I mean Vin Diesel is Bisexual, It would have never occurred to me that he loves dick but it just goes to show you that preference in sexuality has nothing to do with how you look, what you wear, or what careers and hobbies you like to do  

Quoting Jessy Ann:" I guess she means it just came as a shock? I mean Vin Diesel is Bisexual, It would have never occurred ... [snip!] ... that preference in sexuality has nothing to do with how you look, what you wear, or what careers and hobbies you like to do   "

Ya know, I always wondered about him. It's the voice, KWIM?

Quoting Bethy-Poodles:" Ya know, I always wondered about him. It's the voice, KWIM? "

lol sorry but what does KWIM stand for  

Quoting Jessy Ann:" lol sorry but what does KWIM stand for  "

'Know what I mean.'