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Quoting Hannah Dilks:" Soo, the baby's father (20 y.o.) has decided from the get-go that he wants nothing to do with his child... ... [snip!] ... by immaculate conception, it might save me a whole butt load of drama. Please vote and post opinions/experiences. Thanks!"
Quoting Hannah Dilks:" If i do go for child support, that means that he has the right to choose to see his son. Not saying he ... [snip!] ... doing. I don't beilieve he is mature enough to make the right decisions like to not smoke pot/be high when he is around my son"
Quoting Amanda Edmonds:" Ultimately, unless you are wanting your baby exposed to a here now gone the next day sperm donor, because ... [snip!] ... emotions out of it and keep the best interest of the child first. That can be very very hard to do with anger and resentment. "
Quoting LexrexAndDomorex:" My cousin is going through child support now..she doesnt work because she stays home and watches her ... [snip!] ... he works and she doesnt? Or no because he also has two older children by two different women that he doesnt take care of also."
Quoting LexrexAndDomorex:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom of 4 + 1 on the way:</b>" he have to prove she was unfit ... [snip!] ... visitation. The day after the baby was born he said he was going to buy baby stuff the dumbass went and played basketball!"
Quoting LexrexAndDomorex:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom of 4 + 1 on the way:</b>" you dont have to allow visits ... [snip!] ... it"</blockquote> My cousin filled out the child support papers yesterday and my dad is taking them into the office."