Quoting L&J ♥:" Aw hun, I'm sorry you're depressed. Dont feel guilty! A lot of women experience depression after giving birth. I was one of them. Talking to the dr is the best thing to do, for you and for your LO."Thank you. I just find it really upsetting that I know I'm not bonding with her. I love her so much and she means everything to me. But I need help and I know I do. I've had a history of being depressed. But I didn't think I'd have it after having her.