how to tell an unaccepting mom I'm pregnant?

ok well here's the history with my mom. My sister was sexually assaulted by a bf who was no good for her in the beginning he beat her and he introduced her to drugs and all that smurf. After he raped her she broke up with him. She finds out she's pregnant the summer of 2011 and my mom finds all this out and even though it wasn't her fault she was pregnant. She was terrible to her threatened her and everything and was adament she'd get an abortion... Shes 18 by this time. My mom finds a place outside of our state for her to get an abortion because she was like 4 and a half months pregnant. After everything my sister had gotten pregnant again and my mom and she have never talked again. She hates her just for getting pregnant and having kids. I don't want to end like that. My mom's always been stuck in her ways that if either of us were under 20 and pregnant she'd make us get an abortion or leave. I'm as you can see scared I'm no exception. She hates my bf. He knows and supports me. I'm 21 weeks pregnant. Neither of us have jobs or really anything we just found out. I'm scared she's going to try to superimpose. I dont want that. How can I avoid this?

Just tell her you are telling her to tell her. Her opinions are not needed or welcomed, you have made up your mind to keep it and she can either be a positive influence during all of this or gtfo. If you live with her, time to start looking for housing else where. Along with a job. You are over 18. She has no say in your life anymore.

First off you and your bf need to get a job. That way you can take care of baby yourself and not have to rely on anyone. Then you just tell your mom. Its not your fault of she gets mad. There is nothing you can do to change your situation if you dont want an abortion... Good luck

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Just tell her you are telling her to tell her. Her opinions are not needed or welcomed, you have made ... [snip!] ... with her, time to start looking for housing else where. Along with a job. You are over 18. She has no say in your life anymore."

She is not 18. Not according to her other profile.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" She is not 18. Not according to her other profile. "

I saw the age on her profile and then the one she wrote in  
Confusing smurfing people man.

That gross she made ur sister get an abortion that late. Seriously you and the bf need to get it together get jobs and high tail it out of there you should be beginning to show now. GL hun

That's a hard one.. I guess losing your mom comes with this pregnancy, and you knew it was coming when you chose to keep it. It's smurffy and not fair, but you'll have to tell her eventually. If you don't want her to harass you about abortion, ignore her.

All you can really do is get a job and a place, and prove you can do it.

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" I saw the age on her profile and then the one she wrote in   Confusing smurfing people man."

Oh she told me on the other thread that shes sickened by people telling her to get an abortion at 20 weeks... when she was the on posted in AS.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Oh she told me on the other thread that shes sickened by people telling her to get an abortion at 20 weeks... when she was the on posted in AS. "

Yeah I saw that when I peeked. Her profile has 2 ages on it so idk how old she actually is.

Get help from your local job center, look for a job. Doesn't seem like there's much else you can do. Best of luck to you!

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" She is not 18. Not according to her other profile. "

I never said I was 18.

I'm all for abortion in my situation it's just I'm 21 weeks. And I'm actually 17 I never said in my thread I was 18 my sister was.

Quoting posibillities101:" I never said I was 18. I'm all for abortion in my situation it's just I'm 21 weeks. And I'm actually 17 I never said in my thread I was 18 my sister was."

Your profile age says 18. Then your about me is 17.

<blockquote><b>Quoting posibillities101:</b>" I never said I was 18. I'm all for abortion in my situation it's just I'm 21 weeks. And I'm actually 17 I never said in my thread I was 18 my sister was."</blockquote>




Errr ok if ur all for abortion than why not get one before you baby was almost viable?

Quoting EskimoKiss:" <blockquote><b>Quoting posibillities101:</b>" I never said I was 18. I'm all for ... [snip!] ... my sister was."</blockquote> Errr ok if ur all for abortion than why not get one before you baby was almost viable?"

Because she didnt find out until now.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Your profile age says 18. Then your about me is 17. "

that's an obvious mistake in year

I have tried to find a job but I have to work with my school hours as well.