re: how to tell an unaccepting mom I'm pregnant?

ummm wow..you need to get a job and your BF needs to get a job..I got pregnant at 17 and had my son at 18 and worked my ass off to get out of my moms..its hard and if you cant do it maybe thing about adoption..you cant expect your mom to help..she doesnt have to

I can understand how difficult this must be for you - I'm sorry you're afraid of how your mom will react to your pregnancy. There aren't really any easy answers here, but I will be praying that everything will work out for you.

Focus on the Family has some information for pregnant teens on their site - here's the link: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/pregnant.aspx?p=1157699
I work with Focus, and there are counselors available to speak with you over the phone if you think that would help (it's free). http://family.custhelp.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/12?p=1157699
God bless you and your baby!

yea she know but she cant make me and that's really it. Also my sister didn't have an abortion I was saying when she didnt have an abortion my mom was really cruel she kicked her out to be on the streets prostituting for drugs and essentially she has temp custody of her son and it led her down a really disturbing road of raising two kids without family help. i dont want to end up like that but i have my bf.

Not sure if I read what you wrote wrong, but did you say you just found out you are pregnant and you are 21 weeks?   Maybe you meant something else...