Quoting Chrissy.Ann:" It's been a while since I've been on here, but I'm in need of venting and maybe some advise. After being ... [snip!] ... I hear he might be getting back into drugs I really worry. Urghhh. So much frustration and confusion and disappointment \:"
Take him to court. Tell them you're afraid he's doing drugs. Get child support. Get eberything done through court. I know it hurts now. I bawled my eyes out the day I talked to a lawyer and he told me I had to just keep my son from his dad until I knew he was safe and clean.
It took 8 months(which I did let him see him supervised) for him to get clean and he's now a completely different person. It was a huge struggle in the beginning though. He failed all his drug tests through court until he was ordered to go to detox and then straight to an intensive outpatient program. Now he goes to NA and AA meetings voluntarily almost every day, just got a good job, and sees his son all the time. He is also paying child support through DOR.