re: Im glad my childs father is a great guy

Quoting Kimber-Lily:" ... May the odds ever be in your favor."

I think it's great that you feel this way. But just for future, posting this on a parenting site filled with a mixture of ladies with different life stories, some of whom might have just went through a divorce or messy break up, might be seen as kind of harsh to read, and hurtful. I know that wasn't your intent, but just letting you know for future reference.

Quoting Bethy-Poodles:" I think it's great that you feel this way. But just for future, posting this on a parenting site filled ... [snip!] ... be seen as kind of harsh to read, and hurtful. I know that wasn't your intent, but just letting you know for future reference. "

oh no... it was just for her to rub her "perfect situation" into our faces... I really hate smurfing posts like this.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" oh no... it was just for her to rub her "perfect situation" into our faces... I really hate smurfing posts like this. "

I kind of got that feel from it. But just in case it was pure ignorance, and not intentional, I felt the need to pass on some advice to her.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" oh no... it was just for her to rub her "perfect situation" into our faces... I really hate smurfing posts like this. "

You and me both  

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" oh no... it was just for her to rub her "perfect situation" into our faces... I really hate smurfing posts like this. "

i didn't want to jump to conclusions, but seems the same way to me.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" oh no... it was just for her to rub her "perfect situation" into our faces... I really hate smurfing posts like this. "

I agree.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" oh no... it was just for her to rub her "perfect situation" into our faces... I really hate smurfing posts like this. "

Agreed.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" oh no... it was just for her to rub her "perfect situation" into our faces... I really hate smurfing posts like this. "

haha me too...

screams insecurity to me too...like..." I like bragging, it makes me think things are soooo perfect!! YAY!!"

I mean, my hubby is great, beyond my expectations, I still wouldn't make a post just about it, and then include some weird "Talk to me about how alone you feel" thing at the end of it. That's just rude in my opinion.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bethy-Poodles:</b>" I kind of got that feel from it. But just in case it was pure ignorance, and not intentional, I felt the need to pass on some advice to her. "</blockquote>




Im pretty sure when someone says something like this

"IIts funny how alot of guys will tell their girlfriends or wives of course im gonna be there and help raise my child and then they run off. Im so glad my husband isnt like this."

It's not ignorance. I fail to see how it's "funny" and she hasn't even
Had her son yet so how the hell is her husband not like this. She just stated that they (the men) tell there woman that they will be there, then jet. He still has plenty of time to beat feet out of there.

Quoting Bethy-Poodles:" I mean, my hubby is great, beyond my expectations, I still wouldn't make a post just about it, and then ... [snip!] ... it, and then include some weird "Talk to me about how alone you feel" thing at the end of it. That's just rude in my opinion. "

Very rude!!!

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" oh no... it was just for her to rub her "perfect situation" into our faces... I really hate smurfing posts like this. "

She doesn't have a kid yet so of course she's in a "perfect situation", she has no smurfing idea how much smurf will change once she has a crying baby and is trying to maintain everything else in life.

Quoting Bethy-Poodles:" I mean, my hubby is great, beyond my expectations, I still wouldn't make a post just about it, and then ... [snip!] ... it, and then include some weird "Talk to me about how alone you feel" thing at the end of it. That's just rude in my opinion. "

That is what I came to the conclusion because she added that little insult there.

Honestly OP.. you are 19. I was 19, and pregnant with my ex. Your husband has time to get smurffy on you.

Quoting ❦:" She doesn't have a kid yet so of course she's in a "perfect situation", she has no smurfing idea how much smurf will change once she has a crying baby and is trying to maintain everything else in life."

It makes me want to slap a bitch...

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