sex question tmi

I am 3 weeks and 4 days from having my baby and last night I tried to have sex. I know it was a terrible thing to try but I did. I only had 1st degree tears and the stitches looked like they were gone so I tried it out with a condom of course. It felt pretty lose down there still. I was expecting it to be really tight because that is what the sites say but I was not. Do you think that I will tighten up more or is that just how I am going to be? Would any of you be worried about infection. I kinda freaked out this morning when I thought about what we did. I have no self control  

Quoting preggerandproud:“ I am 3 weeks and 4 days from having my baby and last night I tried to have sex. I know it was a terrible ... [snip!] ... you be worried about infection. I kinda freaked out this morning when I thought about what we did. I have no self control  ”

Yeah but you're supposed to wait six weeks. It's loose because you are still not completely healed. It doesn;t matter if the stitches are gone or not. And you could get an infection as well. It may look normal on the outside but you have no idea what's still healing on the inside.

Dont worry you will tighten up more. I remember going to my first exam after having my daughter an d when he put the speculum(sp) in i hardly knew it was there. Things are back to normal. As far as having sex, if it was not painful and you have no signs of infection dont sweat it!

It will tighten up. I remeber when I had sex for the first time at 5 weeks it felt loose. Now It's back to normal.

It will definetly tighten back up, don't worrie hun. Just remember Kegals,Kegals,& more kegals! It really does help.