Quoting Mama 2 a Boy & Girl:" If u want to change it back to urs the father has to agree. My DS has my last name because my BD has ... [snip!] ... because my BD has nothing to do with him and denies him... My DD has SO name and if we get married i will have SO adopt him. "
Quoting stevies*mommy:" no my DD has my name.... her dad is trying to have it changed to his last name"