re: everyone is partying hard... not me

Sounds like you may need to move out. Partying is not good around a baby. Not to mention you don't like their lifestyle and want it to change but how do you think they will feel about having a baby around while they are still into partying?

i'm only staying here till the end of the semester (december) ... i would defiantly not have a baby living here... they are amazing people just i think the burden of a screaming baby is just too much for them

<blockquote><b>Quoting Luvmuch:</b>" i'm only staying here till the end of the semester (december) ... i would defiantly not have a baby living ... [snip!] ... not have a baby living here... they are amazing people just i think the burden of a screaming baby is just too much for them "</blockquote>




I think that is a good idea   and its really messed up that some ppl find babies to be a burden, but that's life unfortunately. Don't worry about others too much, just you and your baby  

thank you soo much for those sweet words
thats something i'm gonna keep reminding myself thank you smurfs and giggles :]]

<blockquote><b>Quoting Luvmuch:</b>" thank you soo much for those sweet words thats something i'm gonna keep reminding myself thank you smurfs and giggles :]]"</blockquote>




Lol you are very welcome hun.

I'm sorry but you're the once who made the choice to get pregnant. You can't expect for others to change their lifestyles so it can fit yours.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sweetie-Pie:</b>" I'm sorry but you're the once who made the choice to get pregnant. You can't expect for others to change their lifestyles so it can fit yours. "</blockquote>




You missed her post replying that she isn't going to be living there much longer and is moving out before the birth and doesn't want her baby to be a burden for them. Also said she realizes they shouldnt have to change pretty much. The topic was dead.

Quoting S*its & giggles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sweetie-Pie:</b>" I'm sorry but you're the once who made the ... [snip!] ... want her baby to be a burden for them. Also said she realizes they shouldnt have to change pretty much. The topic was dead."

..... and your point is?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sweetie-Pie:</b>" ..... and your point is? "</blockquote>




Exactly what I previously stated. You had missed the last part of the conversation so I was explaining what was said and that the topic had been dead for a while. If you took that offensively that was not my intent.