Quoting Adams Mommy:" I feel like nothing good can come of this. Basically if she hurt your feelings then, the fact that you ... [snip!] ... are calling her out is not going to make the situation better. Just ignore what is being said, and do what you need for you."
You're right, calling her out is not going to make the situation better, but I really wanted to bring it to others attention how wrong it is and how hurtful it can be to people.
I should ignore it but sometimes its hard to ignore something that really hits a sore spot.