re: shouldn't you want children with the one you've fallen in lo

Quoting Avery’s momma:" I don’t believe in “forever” because smurf happens. Life isn’t a fairy tale. I would love for SO and I ... [snip!] ... forever but I doubt it’s going to happen. I am not a negative person I am just a firm believer in bad smurf happening lol."

  exactly.

ive been with my partner since i was 16 im 22 now and 24 weeks pregnant... but i cause say without a doubt if we had a baby at 17 we would not be together now.. even now i don't know if we are forever, things happen, people change. and saying your gonna forever is immature and naive.. the best i can advice i can give is to figure out if u really want this baby, and to look hard at your man and ask your self if hes gonna be around if u do break up.. good luck with whatever u decide!!!

I got pregnant at 17 and it was HARD. I'm still with SO but it was a tough road, we have broken up and got back together and sometimes it is really hard work. I'm 21 now and we have two kids together.

I also realise that amongst my family who had kids in their teens and friends who also had kids in their teens, I'm the only one who is still with the father of my kids, and it IS a rarity to stay together, not only because of the stress of the kids but because there is a lot of life between 17 and the end. Hell, here's a lot of life between 17 and 21!

OP -if you don't want to have a baby, you don't have to. Get an abortion, adoption or keep it. Those are your three options but make sure the choiceis what is best for you because no matter what option you choose, you will have to live with it for the rest of your life. Not pressuring you to choose one over the other, just to make an informed decision.

Quoting possibiltylongshot:" yea maybe a late abortion is a good idea. anyhow, I was just saying sorry I didn't know you were all ... [snip!] ... when I turn 18. i know how having a kid was for my sister a this age. my mom abandoned her. I don't have the best lifestyle..."

Maybe I'm an idiot but I'm not understanding, I'm smurfing confused .. damn it!

Are you already pregnant? Is your SO TTC but you don't want to? Do you want to get pregnant? What the smurf is going on? Lol.

Anyways, most of the time, cases like the one's you are in the guy is all in love and smurf until the baby poops up and reality hits the guys straight in the face. If you are not pregnant DO NOT get pregnant. Don't be stupid, live your life and then think about marriage when you're old and wise.

it's a shame people would tell me at 21 weeks to get an abortion that's disgusting....


and I didn't ttc this or anything like that sorry lost my password

Quoting posibillities101:" it's a shame people would tell me at 21 weeks to get an abortion that's disgusting.... and I didn't ttc this or anything like that sorry lost my password"

**For everyone else, this is OPs post in AS

http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about2307936.html

How effn ignorant of you. You are the one who posted in AF and the women there (who werent modded) were giving you support and help. Some women have aborted that far into pregnancy, so for you to ask advice and then knock them is a smurfing disgusting.

SMH...you're on your own as far as Im concerned.

I didn't know I thought I was 18 weeks. But now that I've seen late term in the 20's is like infanticide there's no way I'm doing that. It seems horrible some places it's legal it's not here

Quoting posibillities101:" I didn't know I thought I was 18 weeks. But now that I've seen late term in the 20's is like infanticide there's no way I'm doing that. It seems horrible some places it's legal it's not here"

Well you are the idiot who wanted an abortion and posted it in AS and ASKED FOR HELP. WTF. I am RARELY this pissed off about a subject. But you are an idiot. And I highly doubt you lost the password.

wow you get pissed online you must really be temperamental irl

Quoting posibillities101:" wow you get pissed online you must really be temperamental irl"

No. I am very sane irl. YOU are bashing US because we told you to get an abortion? And have the nerve to make another account becuase you forgot your stuff?

I'm not bashing. I think you were calling people names so it's obvious who was bashing I just think this far abortion is wrong. You attacked me for my beliefs and personal choice.

what was I supposed to do if I lost my information?

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" No. I am very sane irl. YOU are bashing US because we told you to get an abortion? And have the nerve to make another account becuase you forgot your stuff? "

Is smurf punt of the month still running?

Quoting posibillities101:" I'm not bashing. I think you were calling people names so it's obvious who was bashing I just think this ... [snip!] ... far abortion is wrong. You attacked me for my beliefs and personal choice. what was I supposed to do if I lost my information?"

Wait, WHAT? Yeah Ok. You were the one who asked about abortion at 18 weeks. NOT ME.

It is simple to get your info.. use your email to get your login info...

Quoting Shannonsfirst:" Is smurf punt of the month still running?"

I dont know. But seriously, this one gets it.

I know because I had no clue what abortion or how pregnancy worked that late. I'm 21 weeks though I went to the dr and everything.


and I guess that's the problem I went to the forgot password and they said they didn't have my password so mauybe I wrote it wrong accidentally...