Disappointed and Sad...
312 postsposted 19th May
Hi …I just need to let out some frustration I have been feeling for the past months. I always thought that getting pregnant was so easy and I was going to be able to conceived pretty easy, but I found out that is hard, and even if you wanted it more than anything it just don’t happen. Everything seems ok with both of us (my DH and me). Maybe to much time on the pill, don’t know…I started to expect that it was not going to be easy, because I had several “ups”…with my ex husband and never got preggo. It seems everyone gets pregnant but me, and is very sad. My Dh is very supportive he even had a sperm count (he is fine), he wants so bad to be a daddy, and he is always telling me if we can’t we can adopt. But I don’t want to do that to him. I don’t know I always thought that I was meant to be a mommy, my ex had 2 children and they where like my own. For me it was so easy to take care of them. If by August I don’t get pregnant I will go to a specialist. I feel so depressed and sad!
quoteI'm TTC since February '08 & live in Puerto Rico
670 postsposted 19th May
It can take up to a year or even longer. It will happen, just give it time. You'll be a moma before you know it!!
quoteI have 3 kids & live in Sullivan, Missouri
posted 19th May
Quoting Baby_Majic:“ It can take up to a year or even longer. It will happen, just give it time. You'll be a moma before you know it!!”Thanks for your support! I just fell so sad..and lastnight my bbf had a baby girl..so at least I am a godmother..
I'm TTC since February '08 & live in Puerto Rico
4410 postsposted 19th May
Don't be dissapointed yet. All the doctors say that you aren't technically infertile until you've been trying a year, and from what I can see you've only been trying for 3 months. I know it can get discouraging and you feel like you don't want to keep trying, but trust me, you'll get pregnant one of these days. Just think positive and try not to stress about it too much, that can affect results too. I've been trying since Aug. 07 and recently just went through a m/c. I'm here if you want to talk.
quoteI'm TTC since August '07, have 1 angel baby & live in San Diego, California
931 postsposted 19th May
youd think getting pregnant would be easy.. but like everything in life.. sometimes its just NOt.. not that its not ment to be.. It will happen when its the right time. I could say i can relate to you but then Id be lying.. bc I even got preg with my tubes tied.. so i obviously have a little birdy telling my body to do it regardless..lol i sometimes wish i had a harder time. BUT when your body is ready .. it will happen.. until then.. practice makes perfect.
quoteI have 7 kids & live in South Dakota
7163 postsposted 19th May
I was just sharing my story on another post....I was TTC for OVER 5 years....everything seemed fine with me...DH sperm was a tad bit low..but still high enough to father a child...FINALLY I was tired of playing games...went in for a lap surgery...found out what the problem really was....thank God for the doctor who did my surgery!!!!
We could have been TTC for many many more years...and never got our BFP...long story short...our twins are from IVF...thank God for modern medicine!!!
Good luck to you...I know just how depressing it is going thru infertility!!
quoteWe could have been TTC for many many more years...and never got our BFP...long story short...our twins are from IVF...thank God for modern medicine!!!
Good luck to you...I know just how depressing it is going thru infertility!!
I'm due with twins November 28th, have 2 kids & live in North Carolina
posted 19th May
Quoting Katie_D:“ Don't be dissapointed yet. All the doctors say that you aren't technically infertile until you've been ... [snip!] ... that can affect results too. I've been trying since Aug. 07 and recently just went through a m/c. I'm here if you want to talk.”
Thanks a lot Katie…and to all !! I am usually a happy person and very optimistic. But today just felt really down! It really helps those words of courage and optimism that all of you give me…I will continue to try every month, the only little hope is that today AF does not showed up yet. She is due for today.
I'm TTC since February '08 & live in Puerto Rico
posted 19th May
Thanks a lot Katie…and to all !! I am usually a happy person and very optimistic. But today just felt really down! It really helps those words of courage and optimism that all of you give me…I will continue to try every month, the only little hope is that today AF does not showed up yet. She is due for today.
quoteI'm TTC since February '08 & live in Puerto Rico
posted 19th May
I'll keep my fingers crossed that AF does not come to town! My doctor told me I have to wait until I have one normal cycle before we start trying again, but I don't want to wait! I know I have to...I don't want to cause any harm to me or my future baby. I'm just impatient!
quoteI'm TTC since August '07, have 1 angel baby & live in San Diego, California
2655 postsposted 19th May
Quoting First time TTC PR Girl:“ Thanks a lot Katie…and to all !! I am usually a happy person and very optimistic. But today just felt ... [snip!] ... give me…I will continue to try every month, the only little hope is that today AF does not showed up yet. She is due for today.”Good luck hun. I know how down ttc can get you. We are all here for you.
I'm TTC since August '06, have 1 angel baby & live in Ohio
posted 19th May
Quoting Katie_D:“ I'll keep my fingers crossed that AF does not come to town! My doctor told me I have to wait until I ... [snip!] ... again, but I don't want to wait! I know I have to...I don't want to cause any harm to me or my future baby. I'm just impatient!”Thanks a lot..Baby Dust to you... I know how you feel..but if is for your safety and the baby's...is well werth it. At least you became pregnant, you will bee preggo very soon..!
I'm TTC since February '08 & live in Puerto Rico
posted 19th May
Quoting *Emilee*:“ Good luck hun. I know how down ttc can get you. We are all here for you.”Thanks Emilee..I am here for all of you gals 2..
I'm TTC since February '08 & live in Puerto Rico
posted 19th May
We're all in this together!
quoteI'm TTC since August '07, have 1 angel baby & live in San Diego, California
posted 19th May
I was so sad...because my temps were up until yesterday and I did a FRPT on saturday morning it was BFNMy cycle is a 26 ...I had been with a lot pain in my boobs, shooting pain, a lot of white cm..and felt really wierd. I ussually get my AF in the morning..always on time. My usual temp is at 96.5 and I for one week my temps have been on 98 yesterday went from 98.2 on sat. to 97.7 on sunday. Today I did not bother to get my temp.
quoteI'm TTC since February '08 & live in Puerto Rico
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