Quoting Mommy♡G:" I don't deal with this personally, but I think its great your SO is willing to use a donor. I have a ... [snip!] ... his wife to agree to a donor but she's the one who isn't comfortable with it. I think they will be looking into adoption soon."
Thank you! I'll be honest, I was pretty much dead set against it, So was my DH. but that was before his appointment with the urologist who said they weren't hopeful that he would have biological children. DH immediately brought it up as an option, I started warming up to the idea when I knew he was comfortable about it.
He says that he still wants to be a father regardless of genetics, and tells me that he wants our baby to be part of us, and being mine genetically is enough for him. He's been so supportive to ME even though he's going through all of this.