re: Male Factor Infertility Support Group

Quoting Mrs.O♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Her mama his wife:</b>" WOW, I"m sure the time is gonna fly. ... [snip!] ... Thank you! I hope so. Time has been going slow but now it will go by fast I think with thanksgiving coming up."

This whole year has been such a blurr for me. I just looked at the calendar and realized, tomorrow will mark 2 years for me.

We havent made much more progress. We havent bought anymore fertilaid. He hasnt seen a doc (bc he hasnt seen our primary care doc and asked for his referral). So we are just sitting here. Praying it will happen.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Her mama his wife:</b>" This whole year has been such a blurr for me. I just looked at the calendar and realized, tomorrow will ... [snip!] ... a doc (bc he hasnt seen our primary care doc and asked for his referral). So we are just sitting here. Praying it will happen."</blockquote>




Sorry about your 2 year mark! Hope he can see a doctor soon, I wish we had done it sooner! Fingers crossed for you guys!

Well... don't say anything on FB or otherwise. DH and I are separating. Needless to say we're no longer TTC. It's for real this time. We've tried to stick it out but it's not going to work this time. He has some psych issues he needs to be on his own for and honestly, for my safety and my son's safety we need some time apart. It kills me but at the same time I know it's for the best.

I hope that one day I have the opportunity to have another child. However, this will make 2 failed marriages if we do divorce and I don't know if I ever want to get remarried for a 3rd time.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dicey Wifey:</b>" Well... don't say anything on FB or otherwise. DH and I are separating. Needless to say we're no longer ... [snip!] ... However, this will make 2 failed marriages if we do divorce and I don't know if I ever want to get remarried for a 3rd time. "</blockquote>




Omg... Lindsey, I'm so deeply sorry about this. I seriously wish there was something to say to make you feel better. I'm so sorry! *hugs* if you need me, please text or call- I'm always here for you.

Quoting Mrs.O♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dicey Wifey:</b>" Well... don't say anything on FB or otherwise. ... [snip!] ... something to say to make you feel better. I'm so sorry! *hugs* if you need me, please text or call- I'm always here for you."

Thanks. I may take you up on that. I wish you lived closer. I need a shoulder to cry on. I feel like such a failure. But I know it's not my fault. I don't want the separation. I want to work things out. I love this man.

My mom is going to move here and help me out. He's leaving so now I have a house payment to make on my own. My mom said she's going to try and get a job and help with Jace and the bills. I'm glad I have her. It's what's best. When your husband yells at our child and says he's stupid and he doesn't want him anymore, it's time for a break.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dicey Wifey:</b>" Thanks. I may take you up on that. I wish you lived closer. I need a shoulder to cry on. I feel like ... [snip!] ... what's best. When your husband yells at our child and says he's stupid and he doesn't want him anymore, it's time for a break."</blockquote>




I wish I lived closer too! I'm only a text or call away so if you need to vent you have my number. You are absolutely NOT a failure, I know you want this to work and hopefully a break is all you need but you are doing this for your safety and your sons safety, he comes first.

I'm glad your mom is coming out to help you! I really wish I could be there for you! Please don't hesitate to text me anytime!

Quoting Mrs.O♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dicey Wifey:</b>" Thanks. I may take you up on that. I wish ... [snip!] ... I'm glad your mom is coming out to help you! I really wish I could be there for you! Please don't hesitate to text me anytime!"

Thanks. I just sent you a PM.

Quoting Mrs.O♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Her mama his wife:</b>" This whole year has been such a blurr ... [snip!] ... Sorry about your 2 year mark! Hope he can see a doctor soon, I wish we had done it sooner! Fingers crossed for you guys!"

Thanks hun. Dont be sorry. You've been doing it much longer than I have. We will get through this issue.

Quoting Dicey Wifey:" Well... don't say anything on FB or otherwise. DH and I are separating. Needless to say we're no longer ... [snip!] ... However, this will make 2 failed marriages if we do divorce and I don't know if I ever want to get remarried for a 3rd time. "

I'm so sorry honey. YOu are not a failure, and shouldnt give up on your marriage. I'm sure he may have to go through some therapy to get better. I know time apart is what ya may need, but I would say dont give up. I'm also here if you need anyone. I wish I could hug you.

Quoting Her mama his wife:" I'm so sorry honey. YOu are not a failure, and shouldnt give up on your marriage. I'm sure he may have ... [snip!] ... I know time apart is what ya may need, but I would say dont give up. I'm also here if you need anyone. I wish I could hug you."

Thanks. I deleted my subscription to this thread after I posted so sorry for not responding more quickly.
We're doing okay now. He didn't move out. I contacted a counselor for me. I'm hoping everything will work out. He still wants to do IUI next year.

Quoting Dicey Wifey:" Thanks. I deleted my subscription to this thread after I posted so sorry for not responding more quickly. ... [snip!] ... He didn't move out. I contacted a counselor for me. I'm hoping everything will work out. He still wants to do IUI next year. "

I wish you guys nothing but the best love!

Hello ladies im new to BG and a friend introduced me to this thread. I have one child and recently got married we have been TTC since March 2012 and we recently found out that my DH has a low sperm count and the doctor suggested we see a fertility specialist but i know we don't have that kind of money for IVF. Im just trying to see if you ladies who are going through the same thing have any suggestions or can tell me what you and your DH/SO have done and if there has been any success? Please help

Hi, I'm new here and don't really know how this works. My husband and I are nearing our tenth year of marriage. We suffer from Male Factor Infertility (me more than him). He has CBAV. Not really sure what direction we will be taking because he can't seem to make up his mind. To me it doesn't matter as long as one day someone will call me mommy.