Quoting Dicey Wifey:" I think it really is a grieving process. I kinda feel like a part of me wants to give up completely ... [snip!] ... of persuing higher education. I think DH isn't so much. He jokingly says he'll divorce me if I apply for grad school."
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" I'm thinking of seeing a therapist as well. DH wants nothing to do with talking to someone, he doesn't ... [snip!] ... without him. It's hard when no one understands! I will be thinking and crossing toes,fingers and eyes on friday for you!!! "
Quoting Dicey Wifey:" I know we're on page 2 of the thread and I've already posted but I feel like I should introduce myself ... [snip!] ... because of the cost. My RE suggested an IVF vacation but it still is very pricey. That's where we stand on our TTC journey."
Quoting Dicey Wifey:" I'm glad I'm not the only one tending to be depressed about this. I think it may be healthy to vent ... [snip!] ... or femera and not send him home empty handed. I'm bummed I can't make it to the appointment with him. Makes me more anxious."
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" I know your DH said that if nothing works out for you guys, he's comfortable with not having children at all... Have you talked to him? Is he set on that?"
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" I agree... DH will have to get over it though if we decide to go ahead with DS, if that's what we want. ... [snip!] ... much on 0 sperm count being increased by Clomid but I really hope that's the case because that would be great if that worked!"
Quoting Dicey Wifey:" I haven't talked to him about it yet. I figured we'd talk after his appointment Friday. We had talked ... [snip!] ... nurse and not having any more kids. It's not the way I see my life going. I need something to distract me or fill my time."
Quoting Dicey Wifey:" I will definately let you know if he gets anything. I sort of feel like the urologist is going to tell ... [snip!] ... use any cell of the male body, extract the DNA, and use that in place of sperm to ISCI. But again you run into the cost issue."
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" I know, I feel the same way... I don't even think we can really live a child-free life, I just dont ... [snip!] ... I can't wait for DH's. I have to stop thinking so negatively because I already feel like we will be getting bad news."
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" I hate having to do something and come back in 3 months or come back in 6 months, but if it will honestly ... [snip!] ... they can really be successful with achieving that... I would never wish this on my worst enemy, and hope there's a cure for it."
Quoting Dicey Wifey:" I agree... I read somewhere on an infertility blog there's a few great books out about moving on in ... [snip!] ... in our future. Every time I felt such a wonderful feeling. I just KNEW that we would have our own children. I feel so let down."
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" I'm not religious but I do believe there's a God. I believe in Karma a lot, and don't understand that ... [snip!] ... have to get it in gear now and not wait, because once my insurance runs out, we'll be waiting til our early 30's to save money."
Quoting Dicey Wifey:" I believe in Karma as well... kinda goes against Christianity but I believe it exists. I feel like ... [snip!] ... you not wanting to go into debt. It'd be really hard to start a family already in the hole. Infants are expensive as it is."
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" I would never judge you. Smurf happens! Money makes the world go round... honestly, I'm going to do ... [snip!] ... that is, it will happen. I'm hoping soon but we'll see. I'm scared that DH's diagnosis will be Sertoli Cell Only Syndrome..."