Help!!

How do I tell my Ex-boyfriend, that maybe the baby I'm carrying isn't his? . . . While we were dating, I slept with two other friends of his. I was wasted and didn't use protection. . . So it can either be his, or his other two friends (obviously) and i don't know how i can explain that to him or better yet anyone. Help :'(
Should I tell him the truth or wait until the baby is born and secretly get a paternity test?

you're 15 and pregnant with 3 potential baby daddys?


  yikes

I'd be up front about it and tell him/them and hopefully by the time you have the baby they'll have had some time to accept it could be one of theirs. Being honest is probably your best option

woah, getting wasted at 15 is a no no. i don't drink :p
welljust tell him straight out buut i doubt hes gonna want anything to do with the baby since there is 3 possible fathersO.O i wouldnt

Just tell him. Stringing him along for 9 months and then finding out it may not be his is much worse

Just be up front about it. Tell him you were drunk stupid and heating at the time of cencieving your baby so it may not be his and you want to get a paternity test when baby is born. He's an ex so it shouldn't be too hard considering you're not still with him.

It was a mistake with the two other guy's and I can't take it back now. . . I know I shouldn't keep him like this till the baby is born, but truth is I WANT to get back with him, but with this I highly DOUBT he'll wanna get back with me.

Quoting Kristina333:" It was a mistake with the two other guy's and I can't take it back now. . . I know I shouldn't keep him ... [snip!] ... till the baby is born, but truth is I WANT to get back with him, but with this I highly DOUBT he'll wanna get back with me."

i doubt it too. just be honest,

Quoting Kristina333:" It was a mistake with the two other guy's and I can't take it back now. . . I know I shouldn't keep him ... [snip!] ... till the baby is born, but truth is I WANT to get back with him, but with this I highly DOUBT he'll wanna get back with me."

I'd still tell him the truth now. It would suck if he doesn't want to stay but that should be his choice. It's not right to let him believe the baby is his when it might not be

Wait til the baby is born and then take all 3 of them to the Maury show.  

Or you can just be straight forward with him, maybe he will understand. Make sure he knows that you were under the influence, so you were not in your right state of mind.

Think about if you were in his position and you thought you were going to be a dad for 9 months then to have it ripped from you if the paternity test comes back that it's not his. It would be heartbreaking! You're better of telling him now so he gets used to the idea bubs might not be his.

Quoting pigeon pair:" Think about if you were in his position and you thought you were going to be a dad for 9 months then ... [snip!] ... it's not his. It would be heartbreaking! You're better of telling him now so he gets used to the idea bubs might not be his."

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kristina333:</b>" It was a mistake with the two other guy's and I can't take it back now. . . I know I shouldn't keep him ... [snip!] ... till the baby is born, but truth is I WANT to get back with him, but with this I highly DOUBT he'll wanna get back with me."</blockquote>

And he's probably better off. If my baby mama (possibly) was getting drunk and having sex with multi people while being with me... I'd tell the whore to smurf off. Seriously.

You're fifteen. With a baby on the way. You need to change the way you act and mature up right away and stop with foolishness. You're going to be a mum. Either single or with someone, time to grow up chickadee.

Just tell him. Don't drag him along and don't guilt trip him either.

Just be honest and upfront. And the. Give him time to think about what he wants to do.

You guy's are right. . .
I hope he understand and will be able to forgive me one day. I hope the baby is his as well. Those 4 months together were the most amazing, ever.  

Quoting Mummy-2-2-Monsters:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kristina333:</b>" It was a mistake with the two other guy's ... [snip!] ... along and don't guilt trip him either. Just be honest and upfront. And the. Give him time to think about what he wants to do."

"I'd tell the whore to smurf off?" Is that right you son of a bitch? Listen now and listen good, well actually read, thats if you can smurfing read you dumb smurf, yes I might be pregnant at 15 so what? Not like im shooting heroin while im pregnant. I can act however the smurf I want, you aren't my mother nor will ever be obviously with that micro penis you have. Yeah I got drunk and had sex, teens make mistakes. At least I'm living up to what I did. I'm raising this baby on my own if I have to. If I was so immature, I would've gone the easy way out and gotten an abortion.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kristina333:</b>" You guy's are right. . . I hope he understand and will be able to forgive me one day. I hope the baby is his as well. Those 4 months together were the most amazing, ever.  "</blockquote>



Lol 4 months