(vent-unwanted house guest)

I'm so excited about my baby   I really want to meet him and I know there are things I still need to do.pick out the crib-my sister is paying for itas shower gift, wash baby's clothes and boil bottles and other odds and ends.

As fast I want thesse weeks to go by I have anunwanted house guest ugh! I live in a 1.5 bedroom apartment meaning my room could have been an office instead of a bedroom.So the unwanted house guest sleeps in our livingroom/kitchen he slams the door all times of morning to make smoke runs (he knows we don't allow smoking inside) yells when he talks,talks loud even when he whispers so he wakes me up all the time talking on the phone, singing.

He never shuts up! He's been here for over eights months was suppose to be here only a couple ofweeks.He kept raving about how he'd be gone way beforethe baby was born beacuse he had to turn himself in to jail after three months he did fianlly go turn himself in got released three weeks later.Not likely to get housingconsidering he has no job is 39 years old just got off parole and all he can think about is guy after guy(he's gay) after guy.

He has about five guys calling the house for him. If I could move out I would my god taking over my sister's apartment if she moves out doesn't sound half bad.I understand helping some one out but I really wish my mom would tell him he has to go!He did recently start paying rent but I wish he'd fucking leave!  

Quoting Babymadre:“ I'm so excited about my baby   I really want to meet him and I know there are things I still need to ... [snip!] ... out but I really wish my mom would tell him he has to go!He did recently start paying rent but I wish he'd fucking leave!  ”

??? tell him to leave.

haha try having your nomadic, nocturnal FIL set up house in what is supposed to be your baby's room so all of your babies things end up in the damn dining room... rearranging everything in your kitchen so you cant even find it... f*cking up your dishwasher, taking things that are supposed to be refrigerated out of the refrigerator & letting them spoil to put in things that arent supposed to be in there... staying up all hours of the night with the tv LOUD... taking up SO much freaking space you can hardly find ANY room, walking in on you and your hubby trying to fool around, constantly hogging your baby, always in your damn business never giving you a minute of privacy... always yelling at people over the phone if some stupid piece of sh*t infomercial thing he bought isnt what he thought it was... moving his big ass salt water fishtank into your small 1000 ft apt and then killing all the damn fish, twice!! uggh, i could go on and on... unwanted house guests suck!!!

Quoting Jen[Madi's ♥ Mama]:“ ??? tell him to leave.”

lol I have many times I'm really frustrated.I'm sad too because this week school will end for me so I'll be home more.

i went threw the same thing but it was friends living with me.....and they were suppose to leave before i had my son..... My best advice to you is use the baby as an exscuse..... That this is your first child... you need piece and quiet and alone time....to spend with your new little one..... you will need to do it before you have the baby or you are going to snap and be crabby all the time....It sucks but he needs to understand your family comes first ....... He should willingly leave but he seems to be a slap nuts and dont comprehend.... so just sit him down and say hey you got two days to find a home... cause you need yours.... Good luck...

Quoting *Aidan's Adoring Mommy!!*:“ haha try having your nomadic, nocturnal FIL set up house in what is supposed to be your babies room... ... [snip!] ... your small 1000 ft apt and then killing all the damn fish, twice!! uggh, i could go on and on... unwanted house guests suck!!!”

Wow I'm not the only one! It really sucks my house is really small so even as I type with my door closed I can hear my unwanted house guest in the living talking on the phone.

does he have a key

Quoting Babymadre:“ Wow I'm not the only one! It really sucks my house is really small so even as I type with my door closed I can hear my unwanted house guest in the living talking on the phone.”

uggh, yes we have paper thin walls and if my hubby puts a pillow in my face during sex one more time so his father doesnt hear i'm screaming as loud as i can and rolling him off the bed!!! 

i feel all the pain in this room... I had a 2 bed room 1 bath trailor with me being prego and my friend her bf and there 3 kids when i had my first son.... I was a wuss and didnt say anything to them just bitched to my mom and she finally told them they had to leave... god it was nice to have piece and quiet again

Quoting ~It's a boy~:“ does he have a key”

No but then again I no longer have a key my brother lost them.So my mom is the only one with a key.

Quoting ~It's a boy~:“ i feel all the pain in this room... I had a 2 bed room 1 bath trailor with me being prego and my friend ... [snip!] ... to them just bitched to my mom and she finally told them they had to leave... god it was nice to have piece and quiet again”

I think my momis feed up with our house guest as well since it's no longer just me complaining well considering he's still here maybe she isn't...

i would change the lock and put his stuff outside....you have to do what you have to do.......

Quoting *Aidan's Adoring Mommy!!*:“ uggh, yes we have paper thin walls and if my hubby puts a pillow in my face during sex one more time so his father doesnt hear i'm screaming as loud as i can and rolling him off the bed!!! ”

lol haaa something that actually made me laugh.Hope it's enough to keep me from blowing up at my unwanted house guest.

why is he staying at ur place to begin with? is he a relative of some sort? take ur keys from him and just tell him to get the fuck out or ur calling his parole officer.

Quoting sweetkisses0530:“ why is he staying at ur place to begin with? is he a relative of some sort? take ur keys from him and just tell him to get the fuck out or ur calling his parole officer.”

Yeh He's mu uncle still I'm ready for him to go though.And he doesn't have a key and he is off parole now. I know I'm going to blow up at him soon tried ofleaving my own house so I don't have to deal with him is getting old !