Quoting Scared & Excited:" Yesterday I had a doctors appointment with my normal doctor and he organised an ultrasound due to the ... [snip!] ... apart. The people that mean the most keep pushing me down.. I just want him to take some responsibility. What should I do?"
My parents and the BD were the exact same with me. But here I am, 8months, and my parents have completely turned around and are estatic about the baby (but not about the circumstance) and BD is excited (after ALLLLL of his smurf talking and emotional torture) for his son.
Do what YOU want to do. But also be prepared to deal with the collateral consequences on your own. If it doesnt work out that way and you have support from your mom and your bd then good, but dont expect it.
Remember, your body, your decision. If you have a baby, you deal with that. If you abort, you deal with that. no one else.