re: Cost of abortion?

When I took the pill 3 years ago it was 350. You can also get help for paying for an abortion if you need the help.

And the crazy thing is that I am now the bad guy. He's never been there and yeah I know I was dumb for sleeping with him unprotected again but I thought smurf had changed. Now he doesn't want to be around me or my son and smurf is right back like it used to be. I hate this whole damn situation. He's acting like its the highlight of my day to go get an abortion. I can barely get by with the kid I got now he doesn't help financially so he doesn't know how hard it is.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" When I took the pill 3 years ago it was 350. You can also get help for paying for an abortion if you need the help. "

  Holy crap! That is outrageous!

Quoting Mommy&Noah:" And the crazy thing is that I am now the bad guy. He's never been there and yeah I know I was dumb for ... [snip!] ... go get an abortion. I can barely get by with the kid I got now he doesn't help financially so he doesn't know how hard it is."

I would take him for child support.

He is a jerk for thinking that getting an abortion is the highlight of your day.

Quoting Mommy&Noah:" And the crazy thing is that I am now the bad guy. He's never been there and yeah I know I was dumb for ... [snip!] ... go get an abortion. I can barely get by with the kid I got now he doesn't help financially so he doesn't know how hard it is."

Have you taken him to court for financial help? (Child support)
Though, even sometimes court ordered child support doesn't change things, especially if he doesn't have a job! It will just put him in arrears if he doesn't pay.
BUT, if he does have a job, it will come directly out of his pay check each week and be sent to you

Quoting Mommy&Noah:" And the crazy thing is that I am now the bad guy. He's never been there and yeah I know I was dumb for ... [snip!] ... go get an abortion. I can barely get by with the kid I got now he doesn't help financially so he doesn't know how hard it is."

Him and his feelings should have zero factor in why you are making this decision. I'd say the opposite if y'all were together and things were kosher but you aren't and it's not.

Quoting Life is G♡♡d :" Have you taken him to court for financial help? (Child support) Though, even sometimes court ordered ... [snip!] ... arrears if he doesn't pay. BUT, if he does have a job, it will come directly out of his pay check each week and be sent to you"

He doesn't have a job right now so he's not paying. It's taken out on him he just can't pay it or he just won't pay it.

Honestly, I think you should do whatever YOU want to do. Not because he wants you to.

Quoting Smartass *TNTC*:" No... the abortion pill...."

There's an abortion pill? I didn't even know that.

Where I live, I might as well live in a cave  

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Honestly, I think you should do whatever YOU want to do. Not because he wants you to. "

An abortion is what I really want. There's no way in hell I can have a child. If i chose to keep this baby it would take away from the child I have now.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Honestly, I think you should do whatever YOU want to do. Not because he wants you to. "

   

Quoting Mommy&Noah:" And the crazy thing is that I am now the bad guy. He's never been there and yeah I know I was dumb for ... [snip!] ... go get an abortion. I can barely get by with the kid I got now he doesn't help financially so he doesn't know how hard it is."

Do not listen to anyone but you. You are the only person who will 100% be there to feel the concequences of your decisions.

Quoting Mommy&Noah:" An abortion is what I really want. There's no way in hell I can have a child. If i chose to keep this baby it would take away from the child I have now."

Well, there's your answer. Your body, your choice.

Quoting Mommy&Noah:" An abortion is what I really want. There's no way in hell I can have a child. If i chose to keep this baby it would take away from the child I have now."

Ok. Thats good that you have thought about the pros and cons. I wish you the best. If you need someone to talk to before and afterwards, I am here. I have done all 3 options.

Quoting Mama Van D:" There's an abortion pill? I didn't even know that. Where I live, I might as well live in a cave  "

Yup. lol....