Quoting Andraya DeCouto:" Goodness I am just so upset! My husband is such an embarrassment. I swear I don't think I can be with ... [snip!] ... not want my child to learn that acting like this is okay, because it really isn't. ****End rant, sorry, I had to get that out."
How many children do you have together? I ask because it doesn't say at the bottom of your posts like it does for some of us.
I empathize with ya. My ex husband was the kind of drunk who would have molt liquor at 8 in the morning. Hell if he woke up at 3AM and couldn't sleep due to alcoholism disturbing his sleep cycle, he'd go out and get another beer. Steal one if he was broke.
I can tell you it's probably not going to change unless he decides he really wants it too.
My ex husband picked me up to hug me while he was hammered and dropped me. While I was in the second trimester of my pregnancy. I was soo upset.
I also have some psychiatric issues and breaking the cycle was really hard for me.
Feel free to talk to me anytime you need support.