re: ~*Official May 2013 Due Date Thread*~

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~ Emily & Kale ~:</b>" I'll have to deal with it I guess.   I just wish he would be nicer and be home more. I can 't do everything ... [snip!] ... going? Mines ok, slow and I still do not feel very good. But I am getting use to it. I am 15 weeks today. Slowly getting there!"</blockquote>




I've never heard of those wristband things but that sounds like a good idea! I'm not sure what else other than like a big water bottle where you would need to drink 3 a day or something. Hm.

He does need to help you out, and of course treat you nicer.   I'm sorry.   when you say he needs to be home more what do you mean? Is he hanging out with friends a lot?

My pregnancy is going fine, I'm always paranoid, wish I wasnt. Symptoms are starting to fade, I'm 12 weeks 1 day. Wish I could get another ultrasound before 20 weeks! So far away.

Just looked at Diva's heart rates...and the highest she ever was is 150. So maybe my HB are opposites.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~ Emily & Kale ~:</b>" hmmm let me lookj on pintrest quickly. Seems like we should be drinking more??? "</blockquote>




That's a great idea!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Shaniell +1+.5:</b>" Just looked at Diva's heart rates...and the highest she ever was is 150. So maybe my HB are opposites."</blockquote>



With my daughter gets was always 160s. This one started at 170 then was in the 160s last appt. at the u/s yesterday they said it was 150s but that was just a for fun ultrasound company so I'm not putting too much into that. But they said this ones a boy.

I am irritable today. Can't wait until the weekend is here.

Quoting ~ Emily & Kale ~:" I need to its so frustrating. I feel like I have no help! I have to do all the laundry alone, clean ... [snip!] ... Lol Im just tired and Like I said just yesterday I started getting a, "heavy, pressure feeling in my vagina" TMI. "

He really sounds like he needs to be put in his place. Like its hard for me to say what i would do cause i know nothing about your relationship but i would deff explain how messed up it is that you do ALL those things with no help and your carrying his child. Is that how its going to be once you have the baby? All those things on top of carrying around a newborn stopping to feed a new born? Its really wrong for him to not be playing his part in the relationship and supporting and helping you in this pregnancy. Like sure whatever guys dont really help with the cleaning and laundry etc but at least bring in the groceries and take out the damn trash!!

Quoting ~ Emily & Kale ~:" I feel like I am the only one with a Jerk in here lol!! Its makes me sad! I don't think he has his head in the right place."

Dont worrying we ALL have our Jerks in different ways!! Mine is just always working and when he comes home hes so tired he dont give me or kids any real attention!! And weekends he wants to spend with his mom and bros (the bros, he works with and sees hours and hours a day!!)

<blockquote><b>Quoting *VuHnEsSaH*:</b>" Sooo, I *think* I may have felt a flutter tonight. I'll be 15 weeks on Saturday. It's not too early, right? "</blockquote>




Nope, not too early  

Quoting armymommyof3:" My husband is coming home today after a month of field training! So excited and the kids are too! We miss him and are happy to have him back by Thanksgiving  "

Awhh So Happy for you!! =)

I stopped at the dr's office to hear baby today. It SO didn't want to cooperate at first; took a while to find it. HB was around 170 again today. I don't know what DS and DD's heart rates were; never wrote them down

Quoting Hannah.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~ Emily & Kale ~:</b>" I'll have to deal with it I guess.   ... [snip!] ... I wasnt. Symptoms are starting to fade, I'm 12 weeks 1 day. Wish I could get another ultrasound before 20 weeks! So far away."

He been hunting every single weekend and leaves me for the last month and a half.   I don;t mind him doing that he just doesn't need to be gone ALL weekend EVERY weekend  
Also he gest smurf faced with his dad at the bars and spends a lof of money which we need to be saving! Ughh men...
He use to help out a lot, laundry, cleaning, dishes, ect... well not anymore its like I don't even exist. And he's the one who wanted this baby. All he talked about was having a baby. Well now hes got one and IDK... ugh...

Such is life!

Quoting Happy to b a mommy of 3:" He really sounds like he needs to be put in his place. Like its hard for me to say what i would do cause ... [snip!] ... guys dont really help with the cleaning and laundry etc but at least bring in the groceries and take out the damn trash!! "

He really does. I am suppose to be taking it easy. Easy as possible. I had EIGHT kids today all by myself for daycare all 3 and under. And he took of work at noon to get a hair cut and leave early for hunting. And we need that extra money! He makes good money too thats why it makes me mad!

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~ Emily & Kale ~:</b>" He been hunting every single weekend and leaves me for the last month and a half.   I don;t mind him ... [snip!] ... the one who wanted this baby. All he talked about was having a baby. Well now hes got one and IDK... ugh... Such is life!"</blockquote>




Have you said exactly this to him? That you don't mind him doing his thing but he can't be spending a ton of money and that you NEED some help. Your health and the health of the baby are more important than any hobby of his, and he wanted a baby, now it's time to start taking on the responsibility. I'm sorry mama, I hope he straightens out soon. I don't think I could live like that.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~ Emily & Kale ~:</b>" He been hunting every single weekend ... [snip!] ... to start taking on the responsibility. I'm sorry mama, I hope he straightens out soon. I don't think I could live like that."

Yep I have. He tells me he has moeny, Don't worry about it. And if I want he will stay home and be my slave waiting on my hand and foot. Hes being a child.
But he has two OWI's and has no real license and is still driving drunk on the weekends and he un-hooked his blower in his car!!! WTF! he is suppose to have that till feb 2013 or later, b.c he knows damn well that car would not start with him being that smurffaced.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~ Emily & Kale ~:</b>" Yep I have. He tells me he has moeny, Don't worry about it. And if I want he will stay home and be ... [snip!] ... is suppose to have that till feb 2013 or later, b.c he knows damn well that car would not start with him being that smurffaced."</blockquote>



Yikes. I'm sorry I really have no good advice, I just wouldn't be able to put up with that smurf. I would have already had him out just for talking to me like that.