Regretting Marriage

For one reason and one reason only!

We kind of elpoed. We went to the courthouse one day and got married.

But we live in two different coutries and now we are having a hard time picking where we want to live because neither of us want to quit our job.  

It's either he move here or I move there. But if I move there, I will only be able to take 2/3 children. He he moves here, he will be giving up all his job offers and good money and he'll have to start from the bottom here.  

Tough one.

Quoting paper planes:" For one reason and one reason only! We kind of elpoed. We went to the courthouse one day and got married. ... [snip!] ... here, he will be giving up all his job offers and good money and he'll have to start from the bottom here.   Tough one."

The man should leave for the woman. Especially in your case.

Why can you only take 2 of the kids?

In that case, I think I'd make him move to me lol, can he not get a good job by you?

Ugh that sucks.

Thats a crappy situation, no doubt. But for me, there would only be one solution. I would never leave a child behind. EVER.

Wow what a crazy scenario! I think he should move to you if possible. If not, I guess draw lots to see which two kids you'll take?

I don't think I'd ever marry someone I wasn't living with to begin with....... and I'd never leave any of my children behind for any man.

That would be an easy decision for me. Kids over any amount of money or man. He'd come to me. Plain and simple.

Don't leave your kid behind.

Not sure why you'd marry before those issues were worked out...not too smart.

I don't think it's fair of him to ask you to leave your kid. He should move to where you live.

Quoting These City Walls:" Not sure why you'd marry before those issues were worked out...not too smart."

 
I was just thinking this.

Regardless, he would have to come to me. I wouldn't leave any children behind.

I would never leave a child behind...EVER!!