Miscarriage between 6-7 weeks

I found out i was pregnant at 4 weeks but had no symptoms this whole time and in my mind new something wasnt right and wouldn't work out. At 6 weeks i had an ultra sound no heartbeat so they scheduled me to come back in a week because by 7 weeks they definitly should see one by then. Unfortunatly went in at 7 weeks to find out there was no growth between the week and no heartbeat still. I am scheduled friday 4 days later for my D&C again I had one prior to having my daughter whom is 4 years old. It's so stressful and sad at the same time even though i knew in my mind something wasnt right and was expecting it at the same time it still stinks. I'm so afraid of getting pregnant again and having to deal with going through another loss!

I am very sorry for your loss.

I'm sorry for your loss. I can empathize with your situation. It is scary to think of having to go through it all over again. Hopefully this won't happen to you again. *Hugs*  

So sorry for your loss mama.
If I was in that situation I wouldn't even know what to do. I'd probably tell them that they're wrong and that I'm not getting the D&C. Even though that would probably be pretty stupid.

Quoting S&T+1:" So sorry for your loss mama. If I was in that situation I wouldn't even know what to do. I'd probably ... [snip!] ... probably tell them that they're wrong and that I'm not getting the D&C. Even though that would probably be pretty stupid."

No, that wouldn't be stupid. The first step of grief is denial. A year ago today I found out that my 10 week fetus had passed away, and I refused to believe it. My OB wanted to schedule a D&C, but I said no. I kept thinking that maybe he was wrong.

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" No, that wouldn't be stupid. The first step of grief is denial. A year ago today I found out that my ... [snip!] ... away, and I refused to believe it. My OB wanted to schedule a D&C, but I said no. I kept thinking that maybe he was wrong."

I'm so sorry   I couldn't even imagine. I read the stories that the women post on here & I just cry. It's so horrible that anyone would ever have to go through that. You get so attached to that little person inside of you.

I, too, am so sorry to hear about your loss. It seems like me and you are in the same situation. I just had a D&C yesterday.   I had one ultrasound done and I was told I was 5 weeks and 1 day pregnant. I was congratualed and sent home. I was told to come back in 2 weeks for the next ultrasound. This past Tuesday, Aug 28, I went in feeling like something was wrong. They confirmed the baby stopped growing exactly one week ago as the baby was only measuring 6 weeks and 1 day.   They also checked for a heartbeat and confurmed there wasn't one. I did a transvaginal ultrasound that time since that was the best way to find out. I also had lab work done. My heart is definitely broken. I know exactly what you are going through. There is a gift that mother nature gives you post miscarriage... you're extra fertile. My doctor advised me to have one period before trying again. I am hopeful that everyone who has experienced this will be able to post success stories the next time around. I just wanted to share my story with you as your topic post caught my attention. Are you planning on trying again?

I'm so up in the air about trying after having another miscarraige. This time was honestly not even planned I was actually on the pill missed 1 and boom got pregnant so it was definitly a shocker. We were just starting to get excited after the shock of it all, so when we found out we miscarried it was definitly a letdown for us and upsetting. We've kind of talked about it a bit and figured maybe we will just see what happens and let it happen if its meant to be it will. My boyfriend is just really nervous and doesnt want me to have to go through another miscarriage and going to deal with a D&C a 3rd time. I first have to have an MRI done to figure out whats up with my uterus b/c when they did the last ultra sound they noticed that i have a heart shaped uterus and theres a lining of tissue splitting my uterus so they do need to figure out how far the line of tissue goes b/c if it goes all the way down its called a Septum Uterus and I would need surgery to correct it first before trying to have another baby since the chances of miscarriages and reoccuring miscarriages are higher with a Septum Uterus but my dcotor doesnt think that is the case considering I did have my daughter 4 years ago totally fine but with 1 prior miscarriage and now this one so we will see! Sorry for rambling, I hope you take care and are okay!

With knowing your history, I don't blame you for being up in the air about tying again. And please don't be sorry! You weren't rambling at all and I appreciate you telling me about your experience. From the bottom of my heart, I hope you are okay too. That meant a lot to me.   I am wondering if maybe I miscarried because of the pill. I was on it for nearly 10 years straight. When I stopped taking it, we tried right away to get pregnant. I didn't give my body a chance to self regulate and have at least one period before trying. If you don't mind me asking... when you had your first beautiful baby girl, were you on the pill?

When I had my little girl I wasn't on anything for a few years. I had the miscarriage a year prior, took it day by day and played with fire and a little over a year later got pregnant and new right away that it was different than the first time around b/c i was so so sick, emotional everything you can imagine.....then this time was like the first time around with absolutly no symptoms but sore breasts so i basically new in the back of my mind something wasnt right although i was trying to stay positive since everyone was telling me each pregnancy is different and maybe i just wouldnt be nauseas that time but i knew it realisticly you get that instinct its weird.