Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" Do what YOU need to do hun, before you don't have any choices. I think you still have a few weeks left to decide, but the earlier the better."
I agree with Kelly. I have been where you are right now. And it hurts and having to make either decision is hard as smurf. But you have to do whats best for yourself and your kids that already are here. NOT THAT DOUCHE BAG!
Like I said before, if you want to talk somemore I am here. I have a busy day today BUT I will be logging in from my phone.