Quoting Rain (aka Mama):" Personally, I'd probably just tell her that hitting and kicking you isn't nice and you don't like it. ... [snip!] ... nice and we don't like it and we like giving/getting hugs instead. Then I'll give him a huge hug and find something fun to do."
we do that, we tell her it isnt nice to punch and hit and that stuff. and she gets spanked but laughs about it and says hahah you didnt hurt me. i mean she is out of control she is 4 and weighs 91lbs and you cant do nothing with her. and we cant do nothing like spank her or anything bc her gparents dont so whats the point,.