If something happened to you...

Who would you have take care of your kids and why and how did you pick them?

((Edit: Something happened to their father also))

my husband

Quoting BendaBoosMama:" Who would you have take care of your kids and why and how did you pick them?"

Obviously, if it was just me, my SO. I would hope he'd eventually start dating my bff right now, and the two of them raise the boys together... but, if something happens and SO & I both die at the same time, she'll get them.

Quoting Bop:" my husband "

Ha! Sorry! I should have said if you and their father died!

My parents would get her.

My mother. She is younger, fitter, and more sane than my in laws.

my friend that took care of cambria when I was in the hospital. Hands down best parents I have ever encountered

It's in our will my parents get them. My inlaws are scum and aren't in their life we wanted to make sure there was no confusion on who should get the boys if we died so we made a will right away.

i say my mother... SO doesn't agree because he's afraid that his family won't see her if that was the case.

not cause she'd keep her from them but because she wouldn't make an effort to let them see her

If just me died then my husban would look after the kids, but I wouldn't be able to rest in peace haha. I'd be too worried about him leavin them with the in laws to go work  

And if both of us died. My parents would get the kids. I do NOT want the inlaws to ever get the kids, never! The bitch is crazy.

My husband. If we both die my sister and her boyfriend (they are getting married next year).

Quoting BendaBoosMama:" Ha! Sorry! I should have said if you and their father died!"

most likely my MIL or my BIL & SIL

Quoting Twin's Mommy:" Obviously, if it was just me, my SO. I would hope he'd eventually start dating my bff right now, and ... [snip!] ... the two of them raise the boys together... but, if something happens and SO & I both die at the same time, she'll get them."

youd want your So to date your bff? 

Quoting Spyro:" youd want your So to date your bff? "

Yeah, I wouldn't want him to be lonely. She's over here almost every day helping take care of them, so I already feel like she's their second mama. They already know her, she knows how I plan to raise them, etc.

That's a tough question. I would love his great nana to have him but she's 70. Second pick I guess SO's mom and stepdad. Either way I'd make sire he's safe and happy bc I'd always be watching over him.