Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting That Single Mom:</b>" Gold diggers seem to have it figured ... [snip!] ... we worked out... I used to dance and the guys attracted to that are just idiots... I'm sorry hope things get better for u..."
Ha! Where DID I meet this gem? A park bench... no joke LOL! Actually, it was on a private property. I was like thinking, "OMG wow, he's so cute. I bet he's taken. They all are! Or if he's not, he's not into moms."
Me: "Hi, I'm a single mom."
Him: "Hi I'm a single dad."
Me: "No way. What are you doing right now?"
Him: "Nothing, allow me to chauffeur you to the store."
(I was blind, waiting for new glasses. Had an eye infection from my contacts and needed to get diapers, but the sun was going down and all I had were prescription glasses.)
He was super sweet. Asked me for my number and out to dinner. Almost didn't give it to him. I thought he was boring and quiet. Then a week later, this lady crashed into my car, and I had no way to get to work. He was there, on time, everyday to take me. He took my trash for me. He did my dishes! Then I had sex with him and he never did a damn thing for me again. He'd still want to come and have me cook him dinner, play with my baby. He only has his son on the weekends.
One day, it occurred to me that he's never introduced me to his son, but I'm letting him see my daughter? I ended that asap. I told him he could only come over after my daughter was sleeping. He was very butt hurt about it. But I was butt hurt that he's still hiding me from his friends because he doesn't want his baby's mom to find out. Why? Because he still wants her and his family back together. I get that, I really do. I guess single dads are never really "single."