re: has anyone been married when they had their termination. How

Hmm. It sounds like you aren't sure?

I'm 28 years old and 7weeks along he supports a decision to terminate we both do. I was just saying all while I have been pregnant we've just had a roug time it seems. He knows everything we've talked it completely....

<blockquote><b>Quoting HamHam:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting #3 is on the way!:</b>" If your husband doesn't agree with you ... [snip!] ... I read it differently. Sounds to me like he thinks they should wait to have kids, and terminate the current pregnancy."</blockquote>



Oops you're right I misread it.
OP make sure you are 100% sure before you go through with it.

Quoting 28andmarried:" I'm 28 years old and 7weeks along he supports a decision to terminate we both do. I was just saying all ... [snip!] ... saying all while I have been pregnant we've just had a roug time it seems. He knows everything we've talked it completely...."

So what is it that you aren't sure about?

I genuinely curious about how abortion affected your relationship afterwards?

Quoting 28andmarried:" I genuinely curious about how abortion affected your relationship afterwards?"

Well I cant really say but if it gets worse I would get out of the relationship. My ex forced me into a abortion [it wasnt his baby, he said it was him or the baby]... sooo.. yeah and he treated me like smurf before hand and then even more so afterwards.

N/a n/a n/a.

Quoting MommieOfFive:" Abortion at 28 weeks are you even allowed?"

Thats how my eyes saw it too. I had to re-read it =/

Hope you two come to an agreement. Good luck

I wasn't married, but I was in a long-term relationship that ended shortly thereafter because of something we both agreed on that he later regretted. He seemed in full support until I got home, and suddenly, I was the antichrist.

However , with you "we're young" . Women ovulate less often after age 30 and so conception might be difficult. (Not as a way to talk you out of it, as I support your decision whole-heartedly, just a fair warning)

<blockquote><b>Quoting Valdawn:</b>" Twenty-eight isn't that young when it comes to child-bearing years! You're fortunate to be pregnant, ... [snip!] ... if will happen again later on. Having a child is the best job in the world! I'm curious as to what your demanding career is."</blockquote>




Is this even allowed here?

Op seriously I think every relationship is different. If you are strong in your relationship you will get through this together fine! Goodluck

my husband wanted me to do it...then afterwords we never talked about it. he obviously has no idea how fkd up it was for me to go thru and what i still go thru to deal with it. it's hard not having anyone to talk to about it afterwords...especially your husband   good luck