Quoting Angelkissedxx:" It wasn't consensual sex :-/ and I'm married and love my husband and we have a gorgeous daughter I was taken advantage of and the last thing I need right now is a baby by a complete smurf"

Oh no...   Have you talked to your husband? When is AF due?

Yes, he knows, he's furious but we both immediately started researching online for a solution

Quoting Jynxd Blyss:"

They're not "looking into birth control" she took a lot to try to prevent implantation. The morning after pill is basically the same concept. Try not to be a judgemental ass, they're dealing with it how THEY want too

Quoting Angelkissedxx:" Yes, he knows, he's furious but we both immediately started researching online for a solution"

I am wondering, why didnt you go get plan b? Just wondering.

I don't have the money to get Plan-B I'm on Medicaid so my birth control pills are free, and just to be clear I am EXTREMELY against abortion, which's why I'm trying everything in my power to stop implantation from happening so that I don't have to get an abortion we are wrestling with the idea of reporting it or not as it's someone that has a lot of power over us and we are helpless :'-(

Quoting Angelkissedxx:" I don't have the money to get Plan-B I'm on Medicaid so my birth control pills are free, and just to ... [snip!] ... we are wrestling with the idea of reporting it or not as it's someone that has a lot of power over us and we are helpless :'-("

all the more reason you should report it! don't let them think they can get away with something like that!

so sorry you are going through this.

Quoting dream:" all the more reason you should report it! don't let them think they can get away with something like that! so sorry you are going through this."

I agree.

Quoting Angelkissedxx:" I don't have the money to get Plan-B I'm on Medicaid so my birth control pills are free, and just to ... [snip!] ... we are wrestling with the idea of reporting it or not as it's someone that has a lot of power over us and we are helpless :'-("

I would report it anyway, He shouldn't get away with it, If you don't do something it may very well happen again, As sucky a situation as it is, It's best to do something about it, So it can't keep happening.

Quoting Angelkissedxx:" I don't have the money to get Plan-B I'm on Medicaid so my birth control pills are free, and just to ... [snip!] ... we are wrestling with the idea of reporting it or not as it's someone that has a lot of power over us and we are helpless :'-("

medicaid would cover a rape kit and the morning after pill in the ER, honey   Another option is planned parenthood. I know if you're anti abortion you probably don't feel comfortable going there, but its there, and they've always been nice to me. You could go TODAY. Tell them what happened and say you don't want to press charges you just want the pill.

Quoting Angelkissedxx:" I don't have the money to get Plan-B I'm on Medicaid so my birth control pills are free, and just to ... [snip!] ... we are wrestling with the idea of reporting it or not as it's someone that has a lot of power over us and we are helpless :'-("

Gosh I am so sorry you are in this situation. I agree with the others, the guy needs to be held accountable because he is a predator. I don't know your situation and it sucks that the responsibility has to fall on the victim this way. I hope everything works out for you okay.