Quoting Squid Kid:" I'd get a second opinion if you really don't think she is."
As he was explaining it, it made sense
The lack of eye contact, the social immaturity, the "ocd" tendencies, the way she jumps for every noise and covers her ears, the way she can't filter noises, the constant smelling things....
I just never put it all together and now I'm kicking myself for not doing this years ago.
She doesn't have an official diagnosis. This doc said that he cannot put a diagnosis on paper, it has to be done by a certain therapist. But this is what he is almost certain it is