Forums > Single Parentingby: Lorelei's Mommy ♥

dad's that dont use there visitation?

posted 17th Aug
My BD and I went to court in June. HE served me claiming i DIDNT let him see my daughter. which, like usual, wasnt true.
anyway, he was given 18 hours a WEEK of visitation. I have a court date in September. The judge ordered it as a 'check up' to see how the visitation was going and to also talk about child support.
Now, my BD has only seen/had her 8.5 hours out of 283 hours ( i did the literal math)
When we go in front of a judge, do you think they change/take away his rights? or do anything about it? or just be like, this is your warning?
i KNOW every place is different but what are your experience. i live in CA FYI
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I have 1 child & live in Capitola, California
posted 17th Aug
they wont take his rights away.. but they may raise the CS amount and reduce his hours.
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I have 3 kids & live in Dayton, Ohio
posted 17th Aug
Quoting Nichole+3girls:" they wont take his rights away.. but they may raise the CS amount and reduce his hours."
I figured that.. Just frustrating.
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I have 1 child & live in Capitola, California
posted 17th Aug
2.5 yrs ago my BD took me to court visitation. I don't know why he did it because he disappeared shortly after that......have not seen him since
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I have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 17th Aug
2.5 yrs ago my BD took me to court visitation. I don't know why he did it because he disappeared shortly after that......have not seen him since

No wait correction.....3.5 yrs.....so he's been gone almost 3 yrs
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I have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 17th Aug
Quoting ~Girl Scout Mommy~:" 2.5 yrs ago my BD took me to court visitation. I don't know why he did it because he disappeared shortly ... [snip!] ... disappeared shortly after that......have not seen him since No wait correction.....3.5 yrs.....so he's been gone almost 3 yrs?

Do you have full custody? or went after it?
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I have 1 child & live in Capitola, California
posted 17th Aug
Quoting M ♥ Lo:" Do you have full custody? or went after it?"
He still has visitation, but I have custody.
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I have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 19th Aug
Document it all. Even phone time.
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posted 19th Aug
Quoting mamarama:" Document it all. Even phone time."

ohh,, trust me. i do.
my lawyer was even shocked.
i have EVERY text saved and the phone bill so he cant say i 'skipped texts'.

He lied about the contact and how he said i wouldnt let him see her, which was bull, so im not gonna let that happen again.
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I have 1 child & live in Capitola, California
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