Venting!!!!
posted 17th Aug
I have been put on Bed rest since 28 weeks due to my dilation and having the baby head down etc....my baby daddy always tries to act like his being bothered when i ask for help...all he does really is be on the laptop play a couple songs on You tube, Apply for jobs and watch television or sleep!!! Im currently not working but im in school Monday to Friday even though i was put on bedrest. His home all the time but i still have to come home and clean up after him, he will Literally move his clothes in the living room and dump them and watch TV like its important. I really cant wait till he gets a friggin JOB maybe things will be different. Im 8 months pregnant and i at least expect him to maintain what i clean so i dont have to do it everyday...i mean seriously is it that hard to put your clothes in a laundry basket???
quoteposted 17th Aug
I definetly AGREE with why your pissed off , BUT you must understand men don't naturally clean & they AREN'T bothered by the mess around them . You should talk to him about this issue though . It's not fair that your on bed rest but doing school/housework while he gets to play around & complain when yu need some help .That's midly inconsiderate !
quoteposted 18th Aug
Yeah i dont ask him tO clean at all i do it if he had a job i would understand
quoteposted 18th Aug
<blockquote><b>Quoting SammieJae(::</b>" I definetly AGREE with why your pissed off , BUT you must understand men don't naturally clean & ... [snip!] ... but doing school/housework while he gets to play around & complain when yu need some help .That's midly inconsiderate !"</blockquote>
Not true, all the men in my life minus one or two keep a clean house/shop. It's not being male or female but age, maturity and upbringing. She does need to speak up though.
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