re: Official TTC a 2014 baby thread!!!

Quoting ☠BryBry's MuM☠:" we arent ttc this monrht i guess. but im stil keeping track of my cycle thing is it doesnt look like ... [snip!] ... here is my chart... can anyone help explain what might be wrong or could cause this? is stress a cause of this?"

I'm not trying to judge.. but did you not just post yesterday about your SO being verbally abusive...? I wouldn't want one child in that situation, let alone another. Honestly, I don't think you're in a proper place to be TTC. But that's me. If you can't agree to TTC and he's verbally abusive, there's no stability to bring another child into.


I may seem rude, but I'm just voicing personal opinion.

Quoting ℓise ♥:" I'm not trying to judge.. but did you not just post yesterday about your SO being verbally abusive...? ... [snip!] ... verbally abusive, there's no stability to bring another child into. I may seem rude, but I'm just voicing personal opinion. "

seems like it... i fixed about the ttc so that you understand me correctly.
We arent TTC anymore!!! we never even tried only last month. I dont want to be in this situation nor do i want my child in it. we are going to have alone time this Saturday and i am going to have a hug talk with him.

All I am just wondering if stress can cause you not to O thats it.

BFN today. 12DPO. Not my month. S'okay, though.

Congrats to the momma who got her BFP! And Lise, I think I saw a very faint second line in your test.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☠BryBry's MuM☠:</b>" First off we arent TTC anymore!!! we never even tried only last month. I dont want to be in this situation ... [snip!] ... this Saturday and i am going to have a hug talk with him. All I am just wondering if stress can cause you not to O thats it."</blockquote>

You do need to talk to him. You can't keep yourself in a relationship like that. I've been there, done that.. It's not pleasant.

I'm not sure if stress can play a role in not O'ing. I'm sure it could.

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" BFN today. 12DPO. Not my month. S'okay, though. Congrats to the momma who got her BFP! And Lise, I think I saw a very faint second line in your test."</blockquote>

I'm not holding my breath on it.. I think I O'ed late. AF is suppose to come on Sunday, we will see I guess.

Quoting ℓise ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" BFN today. 12DPO. Not my month. S'okay, though. ... [snip!] ... I'm not holding my breath on it.. I think I O'ed late. AF is suppose to come on Sunday, we will see I guess."

Good luck!  

I wish SO and I would've tried harder this cycle. I know when I O'd... but I was just so sick and didn't want to BD   So we only BD'd a handful of times, and work schedules clashes. URGH. Kicking myself in the ass now  

Quoting ℓise ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☠BryBry's MuM☠:</b>" First off we arent TTC anymore!!! ... [snip!] ... that. I've been there, done that.. It's not pleasant. I'm not sure if stress can play a role in not O'ing. I'm sure it could."

yes i do and this is that last talk like this we will have. He knows ive been in a bad mood with him since last week and he knows something is wrong.
its not pleasent whatso ever.
plus im really waiting to get paid (thursday) not like i can do anything with $1.


ya i donno its wierd it looks like i O'd after my period was over but is that even possible i donno its strange to me.. oh well not like ill be needed this anymore
which breaks my heart but nothing i can do.

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" Good luck!   I wish SO and I would've tried harder this cycle. I know when I O'd... but I was just ... [snip!] ... didn't want to BD   So we only BD'd a handful of times, and work schedules clashes. URGH. Kicking myself in the ass now  "</blockquote>




Since the 1st, there's been three days we haven't   but that's us in general lol.

Quoting ℓise ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" Good luck!   I wish SO and I would've tried harder ... [snip!] ... ass now  "</blockquote> Since the 1st, there's been three days we haven't   but that's us in general lol."

Jesus lol. I used to be like that.... my sex drive has definitely gone down   Nothing to do with SO, I'm just so tired from work all the time... I want to sleep. Lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☠BryBry's MuM☠:</b>" yes i do and this is that last talk like this we will have. He knows ive been in a bad mood with ... [snip!] ... possible i donno its strange to me.. oh well not like ill be needed this anymore which breaks my heart but nothing i can do."</blockquote>


Work on your relationship first hun <3 then if things seem favourable to ttc later, do so! Your time will come, I'm sure.

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" Jesus lol. I used to be like that.... my sex drive has definitely gone down   Nothing to do with SO, I'm just so tired from work all the time... I want to sleep. Lol."</blockquote>

Haha, even if I'm tired he just knows how to get me going. But the three days we haven't this month we both were like flop onto the bed and not wanna move, kind of tired!

Quoting ℓise ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☠BryBry's MuM☠:</b>" yes i do and this is that ... [snip!] ... Work on your relationship first hun <3 then if things seem favourable to ttc later, do so! Your time will come, I'm sure."

yes i know thats why we arent ttc. i doubt my time will come soon. thanks tho

Took one of my digital tests a few hours ago and it was positive. No doubt when that sucker says "pregnant." We are super excited and hoping that this one sticks. I am really kinda shocked. DH was sick when I Oed but we BDed a few days before. Guess he has some strong swimmers that hung in there LOL!!!

CD19 for me! Took an ovulation test and it's almost there! Hopefully tonight or tomorrow it will be there! I'm so hoping for a November baby! Then all 4 of us will have November birthdays!  

According to the app on my phone I'm suppose to O today but DH is already sleeping so no BD tonight   We BD on Sunday and will again tomorrow so hopefully that will be good enough to get our 2013 baby