re: Official TTC a 2014 baby thread!!!

Quoting ZanesMommy2011:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(13 weeks):</b>" you dont need to do it everyday! ... [snip!] ... But I think I'll feel like if I get a bfn this month it could've been because this one day of not bd."

ya never know. I would BD again just in case lol

12 DPO and BFN this AM.
I feel like I am out this month, though it is probably for the best.
But damn we BD'd for 9 out of 10 days around my fertile time.
Then again if I implanted late like yesterday I might not get a positive until Saturday or even Sunday.

I don't feel like AF is coming, maybe I can convince SO to get me some FRER's since he has to drive by the store on his way home from work anyway.

Quoting ZanesMommy2011:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(13 weeks):</b>" you dont need to do it everyday! ... [snip!] ... But I think I'll feel like if I get a bfn this month it could've been because this one day of not bd."

LOL... well whatever eases your mind i guess haha.
i did it cd7,8 and 11(O day) and i got pregnant. You def dont need to do it everyday. THere will still be sperm in there tomorrow if you take a break tonight lol.
but by all means BD your heart out if you want... Hopefully its not too painful hahahaha

Quoting [JadeLee]:" 12 DPO and BFN this AM. I feel like I am out this month, though it is probably for the best. But damn ... [snip!] ... is coming, maybe I can convince SO to get me some FRER's since he has to drive by the store on his way home from work anyway."

Just curious, why do you nthink it was your fertile time. Unless you take opks or temp or both, there is no guarentee to know when you ovulate. Don't follow a silly app or anything like that because its for the average woman. I can't use those. I ovulate late and we were having sex before I ovulated and never close enough. It wasn't til I used OPKs and temped when I found out when I o-ed... turns out I ovulated on CD 20 and that was a WEEK after the calendars said I would.

<blockquote><b>Quoting [JadeLee]:</b>" 12 DPO and BFN this AM. I feel like I am out this month, though it is probably for the best. But damn ... [snip!] ... is coming, maybe I can convince SO to get me some FRER's since he has to drive by the store on his way home from work anyway."</blockquote>




Good luck hopefully you have conceived I'm in the same boat good luck on getting that BFP

Quoting queso +2curdles(1 :" Just curious, why do you nthink it was your fertile time. Unless you take opks or temp or both, there ... [snip!] ... and temped when I found out when I o-ed... turns out I ovulated on CD 20 and that was a WEEK after the calendars said I would."

Because I had Cramping than EWCM with more cramping.
I guess I should have said estimated fertile time.
We BD'd a couple times after that was over too.

12/23 - BD
12/24 - BD
12/25 - BD
12/26 - BD
12/27 - (CD14) Two Sided "O" pains, No BD that day
12/28 - (CD 15) EWCM It seemed excessively more than it had been! Yay! And we BD!
12/29- (CD 16) BD and Two sided "O" pains.

We BD'd a couple times after that was over too, but I guess I didn't write those down.

So I figure I am 11-13 DPO so I have just been shooting for the middle of that.

Quoting [JadeLee]:" 12 DPO and BFN this AM. I feel like I am out this month, though it is probably for the best. But damn ... [snip!] ... is coming, maybe I can convince SO to get me some FRER's since he has to drive by the store on his way home from work anyway."

Good luck hun!!
I'm the same as you (12dpo) but my temp dropped so I'm sure AF is coming. I'm ok with it however haha.

Quoting [JadeLee]:" Because I had Cramping than EWCM with more cramping. I guess I should have said estimated fertile time. ... [snip!] ... too, but I guess I didn't write those down. So I figure I am 11-13 DPO so I have just been shooting for the middle of that."

Hun I did it every other day one month and we didn't get it. Sometimes even if the sperm meets eggs, some reason they don't match up and it's rejected. Not to be debbie downer lol Just saying that so you don't think you didn't do enough or something.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Manda Panda +3 ~:</b>" Hun I did it every other day one month and we didn't get it. Sometimes even if the sperm meets eggs, ... [snip!] ... match up and it's rejected. Not to be debbie downer lol Just saying that so you don't think you didn't do enough or something."</blockquote>




I personally would rather miss it than to know something was wrong with my baby and lose it..  

Quoting [JadeLee]:" Because I had Cramping than EWCM with more cramping. I guess I should have said estimated fertile time. ... [snip!] ... too, but I guess I didn't write those down. So I figure I am 11-13 DPO so I have just been shooting for the middle of that."

hmm ok... that's good. Maybe you did then. I don't know.

Quoting my♥callsmemom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Manda Panda +3 ~:</b>" Hun I did it every other day one month ... [snip!] ... I personally would rather miss it than to know something was wrong with my baby and lose it..  "

That is true. I would rather not know that I have a "chemical" pregnancy.

Having watery cm today! Since AF ended it was dry. Just a few more days ill be in my fertile window  

Quoting Mommy to Milo&Ava:" Having watery cm today! Since AF ended it was dry. Just a few more days ill be in my fertile window  "

FX and baby dust  

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Manda Panda +3 ~:</b>" Thanks! I'd be THRILLED to finally get it haha. It's like I can kinda "close" a chapter y'know?"</blockquote>




Hoping she comes for you soon!

Quoting Mommy to Milo&Ava:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Manda Panda +3 ~:</b>" Thanks! I'd be THRILLED to finally get ... [snip!] ... to finally get it haha. It's like I can kinda "close" a chapter y'know?"</blockquote> Hoping she comes for you soon!"

Thanks