Quoting queso +2curdles(11):" have you been temping? I temped and took vitex the cycle this baby was conceived. I took one 400mg ... [snip!] ... one 400mg vitex pill in the morning and one at night. I stopped after I was sure I ovulated. Hun its worth a shot to try that."
THank you so much for the suggestion! Yes i have been temping, BUT i started temping in the middle of my cycle just so i would be used to it by next cycle, so i don't know how much help it will be. here's the thing, i had a chemical in october. counted my bleeding as CD1. i THOUGHT i O'd on the 8th because my cervix was very open and soft that day and the day before, and on the 9th it was low and firm again But i never got a positive OPK or even very close realy. So i started having light spotting (just pink CM) three days ago, Sunday. Only when i wiped. Same thing on Monday. And then yesterday i had spotting after BD. BUt i still have yet to get a BFP, and on monday night my OPK was VERY close to positive (i kept testing just to make sure) and same thing with yesterday morning. I tested all day yesterday and never got a positive, and now they aren't even close to positive. my cervix is open and high, and yesterday and today my temp is lower than it has been. But i still never got quite a positive OPK. So i'm very confused. If it's O, why did i spot after BD? I"ve NEVER spotted after BD, except when i was PG with DS. i've also been having a lot of different pains around my ovaries and lower abdomen since the spotting started Sunday.