re: Considering an abortion and I need advice.

If he was so immature to decide he doesn't want a family, don't be so sure he won't so immature as to decide he doesn't want a job either. And then you'll be stuck without child support.

That being said, your money situations could change. And I don't want you to do something you will regret. But please keep in mind your already born son.
My son is the reason I chose my abortion.....money-wise and relationship-wise I was not strong enough to keep 2 babies happy on my own. But with one I am stable.
I know this is a hard choice. Believe me. But you really have to decide whether you are strong enough to handle what the future will hold if you continue the pregnancy.

Good luck.

Thank you for all the helpful advice, I am at a loss of what to do right now.

Quoting ~Sara:" If he was so immature to decide he doesn't want a family, don't be so sure he won't so immature as to ... [snip!] ... have to decide whether you are strong enough to handle what the future will hold if you continue the pregnancy. Good luck."

I am just depressed right now, I mean it feels like someone ripped out my heart and threw it on the floor and stomped on it. I can't go an hour without cryingg.

Quoting Mrs. Yuma ❤:" Thank you for all the helpful advice, I am at a loss of what to do right now."

I can imagine it's a hard place to be mama, don't rush into anything and make any decisions without thinking about EVERYONE involved. You've got to think about your son and yourself before anything else.
No matter what decision you make, you've got everyone here to support you.
Good luck mama <3

Hmm, I REALLY wish people would read and understand the rules of this forum before posting. Anyways...

I would tell you to "do what you feel is right", although I've been in your shoes and it's not always an easy decision to make. All I can really say is good luck with whatever option you choose. If you would like to have somebody to talk to feel free to PM me. Best wishes to you and your son! &hearts;

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jenna 2012:</b>" the best advice I can give you is to follow your heart, not your finances right now. Your job situation ... [snip!] ... enough then. abortions are permanent solutions to a temporary problem. Good luck and please make a fully informed decision."</blockquote>




This!! Money isn't everything.. consider everything.

Quoting Mrs. Yuma ❤:" So I have up until this point been against abortion to some extent but recently I have been thinking ... [snip!] ... and only make $600. Pluss the $200 in child support and I am worried about if I am going to be able to care for this baby."

I wish you the best of luck in your decision. I've been in your shoes, and I agree with one of the users, "Your financial situation is only temporary." But no matter what, pray and do what's best for your heart. As someone who has made this decision, I sincerely wish I hadn't. Everyone is different, but my heart will never be whole. Sending you a hug!!!!!

Quoting Dani Bryant-Murray:""

Please delete this. This forum is only Pro choice talk, not talking about adoption. And "urging" to think things through.

ok so i feel like a jerk now, where are these forum rules cause I missed this. Totally didnt mean to upset anyone! Just trying to give friendly advice.  

Quoting Dani Bryant-Murray:" ok so i feel like a jerk now, where are these forum rules cause I missed this. Totally didnt mean to upset anyone! Just trying to give friendly advice.  "

I know.. but this is in abortion survivors. Not everyone is strong enough to do adoption. But here are where the rules are http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about545917.html

OP, you should definitely look at the laws in your state. You're already over thirteen weeks so if you truly want to get an abortion, you, unfortunately, may be running out of time.  

There is a sticky in AS that lists organizations that can help you pay. These are the two from your state:
Women in Need Fund
This Fund works directly with clinics. You might be eligible for help from the Women in Need Fund if you are going to one of the following clinics for an abortion: Atlanta Surgi-Center, Atlanta Women's Medical Center, Feminist Women's Health Center, Summit Medical Associates, or Savannah Medical Clinic. Ask your clinic to contact the Fund for you.

Atlanta Pro-Choice Action Committee
404-351-5924
If you are having your abortion in Georgia, the Atlanta Pro-Choice Action Committee may be able to help you pay for your procedure. They can also help with transportation to and from your appointment. Call before 9 pm and leave a message, slowly stating your name and phone number, and someone will return your call within 24 hours.



I truly hope you can come to a decision soon and that you can find some peace in whatever decision you make. Best of luck to you.

I'm so sorry Mama....this made my heart hurt....like a previous poster said I would look into all of your options as far as government help and then decide if you and your babies could all live comfortably. That way you would have no regrets in your decision and you knew you did all you could in the circumstances given.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Yuma ❤:</b>" So I have up until this point been against abortion to some extent but recently I have been thinking ... [snip!] ... and only make $600. Pluss the $200 in child support and I am worried about if I am going to be able to care for this baby."</blockquote>


I'm sorry for your situation that guy is a jerk your gonna do what you want to do have you thought of adoption I am pro choice but they can help with medical bills

Quoting Mrs cree:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Yuma ❤:</b>" So I have up until this point been ... [snip!] ... is a jerk your gonna do what you want to do have you thought of adoption I am pro choice but they can help with medical bills"

Not everyone is strong enough to do adoption. maybe she wants to do the lesser of the 2 evils.