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Ban ANY member who attempts to out A BG secrets poster?

Yes, BG secret posters should be protected
 
85% (349 votes)
NO, You use the account, you take the risk of being exposed
 
14% (59 votes)
...does not compute
 
1% (5 votes)

re: Ban ANY member who attempts to out A BG secrets poster?

posted 16th Aug '12
Quoting Sweet lullaby:" I said their city & state."
I would ASSume that since this will be a new rule (if Mara honors the poll), then the past wouldn't matter.
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I have 15 kids & live in Colorado Springs, Colorado
posted 16th Aug '12
Quoting Moses.:" Exactly what Goblin said a few posts up. Outing them without screaming "I KNOW YOU POSTED ON THE BG ... [snip!] ... blah, don't deny it, it's true and you know it" it's still outing them, you just aren't admitting to where it was "heard" from."

true.

do we want to go down that road, then?

it's a broader interpretation of the rule then what i've said thus far.
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I'm due September 28th, have 1 child & live in San Francisco, California
posted 16th Aug '12
Quoting Mara:" true. do we want to go down that road, then? it's a broader interpretation of the rule then what i've said thus far. "


I think we should. It's pretty easy to skirt around it, and out someone, without saying "I know it's you who posted on the secrets account."
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I'm due October 28th, have 3 kids & live in Texas
posted 16th Aug '12
Quoting Moses.:" I think we should. It's pretty easy to skirt around it, and out someone, without saying "I know it's you who posted on the secrets account." "
 
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I have 15 kids & live in Colorado Springs, Colorado
posted 16th Aug '12
Quoting Sweet lullaby:" thats not why I figured out it was her. It was the WHOLE post. Not that part at all, Alot of people ... [snip!] ... She gave out WAY to much info in that post, that I knew which account she was and her threads., It was almost a copy and paste."

Regardless, you shouldn't have mentioned that you had any indication that you knew who OP was. You were wrong for that and I don't understand your point in doing what you did. It just made you look like a drama llama. With that said, I don't think you should be banned for it now but if it happens again, you need to get the ax.
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I live in Georgia
posted 16th Aug '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting Mara:</b>" true. do we want to go down that road, then? it's a broader interpretation of the rule then what i've said thus far. "</blockquote>



I say leave it how you have it right now, blatant outings in reference to bg secret posts. There is no way to determine what's been only put in a bg secret posts and what was posted elsewhere or assumptions made from several vague posts.

Obviously your discretion is always in play but for the most part, for the actual rule. I would say it has to be blatant.
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I have 1 child & live in Beverly Hills, California
posted 16th Aug '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" Regardless, you shouldn't have mentioned that you had any indication that you knew who OP was. You were ... [snip!] ... a drama llama. With that said, I don't think you should be banned for it now but if it happens again, you need to get the ax."

 
Agreed. It made ya look like quite an smurf but no rule is in placed yet, I don't think you should be banned.
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in New York
posted 16th Aug '12
Quoting Jessica™:"  "


I mean honestly, who would say that anyway? Especially if it becomes hard ban worthy.
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I'm due October 28th, have 3 kids & live in Texas
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posted 16th Aug '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mara:</b>" true. do we want to go down that road, then? ... [snip!] ... Obviously your discretion is always in play but for the most part, for the actual rule. I would say it has to be blatant."</blockquote>



How convenient for you then! You can go into another thread and mistakenly out someone because you don't like what was said to you.  
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I'm TTC since January '01 & live in Japan
posted 16th Aug '12
Quoting Barney Stinson [Epic]:" thats pretty smurfed up of someone to do. The point of the account is to get advice on something they dont want attached to their name. If you can't post back respectfully, you should be banned."


I agree with this.
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & live in California
posted 16th Aug '12
Quoting Mara:" making an accusation / statement on the public boards that connects / identifies them with their BG secrets post. "




has this happened recently? *feels lost*
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 16th Aug '12
Quoting My Little Bessie:" What would be the point? There is no such thing ass a "ban" on BG anyway, people break the rules then ... [snip!] ... people break the rules then get let back the next day, its not a deterrent and hardly a punishment, so again what is the point?"
WHY are you still here? Seriously. Shoo!
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Montego Bay, Jamaica
posted 16th Aug '12
Quoting Just Ames:" WHY are you still here? Seriously. Shoo!"


*singing*
Shoo fly, don't bother me. Shoo fly, don't bother me. Do dee doo daaa *whistles*
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I live in Georgia
posted 16th Aug '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" *singing* Shoo fly, don't bother me. Shoo fly, don't bother me. Do dee doo daaa *whistles*"
I mean, it's like the last broken little cookie in the bag. It needs to GTFO  
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Montego Bay, Jamaica
posted 16th Aug '12
Quoting ßea Sauce:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mara:</b>" ... [snip!] ... for you then! You can go into another thread and mistakenly out someone because you don't like what was said to you.  "


I think you have some problems do address elsewhere.
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