Quoting Chuck Finley.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mara:</b>" making an accusation / statement on the public boards ... [snip!] ... they post a city and state saying "I'll see you in hell Michigan" because the BG secrets user said to go to hell to the member."
i'm a little confused about the convenience of hell michigan being their city/state.
but... let's say it's not hell michigan.
let's say it's oregon city, oregon (where i grew up).
i'll see you in oregon city, oregon, you not-so-secret BG secret poster, you!
it's a clue, but not an explicit outing... but it's also definitely malicious.
IF it's in the BG secrets is the OP, they should flag it as an attack. that'll provide the malicious member a chance to calm down and shut up about it in public before they end up actually outing them and getting banned.