re: sex while sleeping....

My husband makes moves on me in HIS sleep sometimes. He will try to kiss me or grope me, etc... And has no recollection of it the next day... I always wake up and I usually tease him about it, it doesnt make me uncomfortable. Its kinda cute, lol. Were married and have a very comfortble sexual relationship... One time we both woke up to having sex with each other. It was hot as hell. Lol. Neither of us knew how it started it but certainly enjoyed finishing it ;)

Whatever works for both imdividuals. It sounds a little strange that you would get on him and ride him til you get off without his acknowledgement.... But as long as he is aware that this goes on and is ok with it... Then there is no issues. Many people have different views on sexuality, nothing is wrong with couples doing things different as long as they are both happy with it. It is important that you know his feelings on this. And if alls good, more power to ya.  

Quoting Taylor Mitchell:" some say its weird but im pregnant and horny. if the mood arises and hes asleep ill just get on top of ... [snip!] ... will even get off. half the time he wont know anything happend unless i tell him. what is ur opinion have u ever done it."

I'd feel uncomfortable doing that unless he was awake and getting off too.

My husband will start fingering me while I'm sleeping alot. (I love it) And always wake up to it and then we go to doing it.

But staying asleep? That's weird. If he got on top of me and started doing me while I was sleeping I would be very uncomfortable with that.

Quoting Taylor Mitchell:" some say its weird but im pregnant and horny. if the mood arises and hes asleep ill just get on top of ... [snip!] ... will even get off. half the time he wont know anything happend unless i tell him. what is ur opinion have u ever done it."

Haha I chuckled at his. My husband does this to me, but i'm not a heavy sleeper. When he starts touching me I wake up... try to roll over... and if he continues, I get annoyed because i'm tired and turned on, but he's still asleep... he doesn't realize he's doing it. So I wake him up and make him finish lol

As a guy can i just say that it would be hot to be woken up this way!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jamie Dv:</b>" As a guy can i just say that it would be hot to be woken up this way!! "</blockquote>




Many men feel this way lmao.

Quoting Aribean:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jamie Dv:</b>" As a guy can i just say that it would be hot to be woken up this way!! "</blockquote> Many men feel this way lmao."

LOL probably true! I think as long as its consensual then its OK.

Quoting EnnaBennaBanana:" I'd feel uncomfortable doing that unless he was awake and getting off too. My husband will start fingering ... [snip!] ... asleep? That's weird. If he got on top of me and started doing me while I was sleeping I would be very uncomfortable with that."

what makes it more ''uncomfortable'' to have your dh stick his d**** in u while u sleep as opposed to him jamming his fingers inside u?
i honestly dont get it.......but i honestly wouldnt care if my dh ''mounted'' me in my sleep (as long as he could ''preform'' again when i am awake)

Quoting 5 blessings so far....:" what makes it more ''uncomfortable'' to have your dh stick his d**** in u while u sleep as opposed ... [snip!] ... i honestly wouldnt care if my dh ''mounted'' me in my sleep (as long as he could ''preform'' again when i am awake)"

haha.. I would LOVE it if my boyfriend would do this.....but only time he does anything sexual to me in my sleep is when he's sleeping sometimes he'll like grope me or start grinding his crotch on my butt. I think its funny.. I'll wake him up and point out his boner. Its hilarious! He gets all embarrased

Quoting VivaLasVeda:" haha.. I would LOVE it if my boyfriend would do this.....but only time he does anything sexual to me ... [snip!] ... his crotch on my butt. I think its funny.. I'll wake him up and point out his boner. Its hilarious! He gets all embarrased"

always tell my DH i wished he didnt sleep on his stomach so i could ''take it'' whenever i want....i have terrible pregnancy insomnia, while he just lays there in a medicated wonderland (he takes anxiety meds b4 bed)lol....he always tells me to roll him over but we have a sleep # bed(no springs) and he weighs 230lbs of muscle. I would give my self hernia trying to roll him over  

Quoting 5 blessings so far....:" always tell my DH i wished he didnt sleep on his stomach so i could ''take it'' whenever i want....i ... [snip!] ... but we have a sleep # bed(no springs) and he weighs 230lbs of muscle. I would give my self hernia trying to roll him over  "

Lol. My SO's only got 15lbs on me right now. He's a little guy. But if I try to roll him over he throws a fit like a damn toddler!!

Quoting 5 blessings so far....:" what makes it more ''uncomfortable'' to have your dh stick his d**** in u while u sleep as opposed ... [snip!] ... i honestly wouldnt care if my dh ''mounted'' me in my sleep (as long as he could ''preform'' again when i am awake)"

Because I wake up very fast and we go ahead and have sex.
But me actually sleeping through sex? That doens't sound loving at all or anything. I don't think it'd be possible for me to sleep through sex but I just feel like there are limits he KNOWS I'm ok with him doing that and WAKING me up by doing the fingering..he knows i like it. But If I woke up with his penis in me I'd feel a bit weirded out he didn't ask first...that's a different level to me...Maybe because of my past with sexual abuse...but I really didn't THINK it had anything to do with that. But who knows.

Quoting xJazx:" My husband makes moves on me in HIS sleep sometimes. He will try to kiss me or grope me, etc... And has .. One time we both woke up to having sex with each other. It was hot as hell. Lol. Neither of us knew how it started it but certainly enjoyed finishing it ;) . ... long as they are both happy with it. It is important that you know his feelings on this. And if alls good, more power to ya.  "

We have done this, and it is pretty great.

Maybe i'm a "weirdo" like OP but i don't get what the big deal is... obviously if i say no and he continues then i'm going to wake up and kick his ass but if he told me the next day that it happened my response would probably be "so, how was it?" and same for him (just asked) ...i'd probably be more pissed if I was tired and he made me wake up for consent lol
I don't see this happening but if it did i wouldn't call rape...

Quoting 5 blessings so far....:" what makes it more ''uncomfortable'' to have your dh stick his d**** in u while u sleep as opposed ... [snip!] ... i honestly wouldnt care if my dh ''mounted'' me in my sleep (as long as he could ''preform'' again when i am awake)"

lol! me too! I told him just to make sure he lubes up since obviously I wouldn't be warmed up yet.

oh well.. will never happen... we're done now