i dont know what to do
307 postsposted 17th May
okay so i was talking to a guy i met about 4 years ago online and we have been talking for several years , he asked me to do something for him , first to send him money cause he needed it and i wouldnt and another time to help him get his green card ?? ( im not american but he thinks i can do anything .. dont know why) ..!! After refusing to speak to him because once ur married in our culture its considered bad to speak to other men. He starts threatning to post my old pictures on youtube with my fathers name and harassing me . My old pictures are not nuude or anything but he will get some pictures off the internet and claim its me along with real pictures of me, but just the fact that he wants to post my personal pictures is making me stress. Ifmy husbandor my family saw this on the internet they will kill me , literally. I`m so stresssed , please help me what do i do .. ! Youtube won't remove any video's posted on there unless alot of people flag it .. he hasnt done anything yet .. but im just afraid he would .. my life is over .. im tired , and my life is falling apart.
quoteI'm due August 19th (a girl) & live in Ontario
7482 postsposted 17th May
He's trying to blackmail you. Im thinking there must be a way to save the emails or something and contact some sort of authority. I would probably just blackmail him and if he does try something rant and rave until youtube does take it off.
quoteI'm due September 30th (a girl), have 2 kids & live in Lawton, Oklahoma
posted 17th May
Quoting Polyphonic Mom:“ He's trying to blackmail you. Im thinking there must be a way to save the emails or something and contact ... [snip!] ... of authority. I would probably just blackmail him and if he does try something rant and rave until youtube does take it off.”
If i do contact any authority my family will get involved .. I want this to be secrete because my husband thinks iv never spoken to any man before and i wasnt wearing a scarf in the pictures i sent him before ... its against our religion
I'm due August 19th (a girl) & live in Ontario
541 postsposted 17th May
I wouldnt worry 2 much, Talk is cheap and its actually illegal in most states to post things that arent yours to post, but id definatly try to get ahold of the Utube founder and let him know whats going on so it can bestop'd before ever being posted. I know your culture is very strict esp towards the ladies . but what are teh chances anyone you know is going to be searching the web for something about you... most cases very slim but allways that chance so id just contact Utube n let them know that this person is harrasing you and put a stop to it before he can even do nething . best of luck to you .. take care of yourself.. worrying is not gonna do you/baby much good r now.
quoteI'm due June 1st (a boy), have 6 kids & live in South Dakota
1325 postsposted 17th May
Tell him that you have called InterPol and sent to them all of these harrassing emails to Leiutenant Draken and was told that it is considered blackmail and as soon as he does anything he will be located by his IP address and taken into custody and you plan on pressing full charges.
Also tell him that you were told to call and make a report with INS with his full name and any other info you have about him and his family and he will never be considered by any US embassy to be allowed to enter the US if you do this.
If he does anything you will follow through with making the reports.
quoteAlso tell him that you were told to call and make a report with INS with his full name and any other info you have about him and his family and he will never be considered by any US embassy to be allowed to enter the US if you do this.
If he does anything you will follow through with making the reports.
posted 17th May
Quoting hnaawi ( 26 weeks ) !!!:“ If i do contact any authority my family will get involved .. I want this to be secrete because my husband ... [snip!] ... iv never spoken to any man before and i wasnt wearing a scarf in the pictures i sent him before ... its against our religion”
You should be able to contact the founder without having many people involved, explain your religion/culture beliefs if have to because alot of americans are very uneducated on how STRICT and how some familys punishments can be, tell them you need secretcy and make a new email acct if you have to so no one in your family might stubble upon email back and forth with Utube.
I'm due June 1st (a boy), have 6 kids & live in South Dakota
posted 17th May
Quoting the_niqabinator:“ Tell him that you have called InterPol and sent to them all of these harrassing emails to Leiutenant ... [snip!] ... embassy to be allowed to enter the US if you do this. If he does anything you will follow through with making the reports. ”
wHOA.. i thought i had a creative way.. She does have a point.. what can be worse for anyone wanting into America.. then having bad reports against you with the embassy.. lol.. he must want over here badly to ask someone whos in the states to help him get out... so If you tell him that then he more then likely will think 2x.
I'm due June 1st (a boy), have 6 kids & live in South Dakota
posted 17th May
Quoting BabyMachine29:“ I wouldnt worry 2 much, Talk is cheap and its actually illegal in most states to post things that arent ... [snip!] ... he can even do nething . best of luck to you .. take care of yourself.. worrying is not gonna do you/baby much good r now.”
He is an illegal immigrant in the United States , he got into the United states with a fake passport. When he was in Jordan he was telling me he wanted to pay me to marry him so he can come to Canada . I was already engaged to my husband , when i told him that he got angry . But he managed to make it to the United states . He doesnt speak english , and he is un-educated ..!
I'm due August 19th (a girl) & live in Ontario
posted 17th May
Just out of curiosity, do you know for sure he has these pics? Or is this just something that he is saying?
Seriously, he also needs to think about what kind of crap this will bring on him also, since it will be directly linked to him!!!! I hate when culture overrides religion, its so freakin wrong!!!
quoteSeriously, he also needs to think about what kind of crap this will bring on him also, since it will be directly linked to him!!!! I hate when culture overrides religion, its so freakin wrong!!!
posted 17th May
Quoting hnaawi ( 26 weeks ) !!!:“ He is an illegal immigrant in the United States , he got into the United states with a fake passport. ... [snip!] ... him that he got angry . But he managed to make it to the United states . He doesnt speak english , and he is un-educated ..!”
that's even better, tell him that you will simply send the emails from him and any other correspondance to INS in the US and they will track him down with his IP address. Let him know that you will tell them he is a threat to US security.
posted 17th May
All i remember is that i sent him random pictures of myself. He was a friend of mine, he got angry when i ignored him on msn because i was busy with my husband. When i came back he was like if you do not help me i will put all ur pictures on youtube and i will write your fathers name. Although I do remember when i sent him the pictures in Jordan he told me he deleted them. every time. He swore on our quran that he did , and that he has sisters and that our cultures are the same and he respects me. But he suddenly turned on me after i refused to do what he wanted me to do for him.
quoteI'm due August 19th (a girl) & live in Ontario
posted 17th May
Quoting the_niqabinator:“ that's even better, tell him that you will simply send the emails from him and any other correspondance ... [snip!] ... the US and they will track him down with his IP address. Let him know that you will tell them he is a threat to US security. ”
I have given him the sweet talk now , i have asked him why he wants to do this and that it's not in my hand to do anything for him. If he stays threatning me, i will do it. But can't i do it for real???
I'm due August 19th (a girl) & live in Ontario
posted 17th May
Quoting hnaawi ( 26 weeks ) !!!:“ I have given him the sweet talk now , i have asked him why he wants to do this and that it's not in ... [snip!] ... and that it's not in my hand to do anything for him. If he stays threatning me, i will do it. But can't i do it for real???”
Heck yeah, you can do it!!!! You can call the INS, get the number off of the internet, and tell them that you know where an illegal immigrant is hiding. Tell them you think that he is not right in his head and keeps threatening you and telling you that he will blow himself and others up if you don't comply and you are terrified.
Tell him that you will send him some money in the mail and get his correct mailing address, then give it to the INS.
If he wants you to moneygram the money tell him its to expensive and if he just waits an extra 2-3 days he will have that extra $100 in his pocket instead of paying them to send less to him.
I had an internet stalker, supposedly a good muslim man....... yeah right lol he was from the UK and SICK
posted 17th May
Quoting the_niqabinator:“ Heck yeah, you can do it!!!! You can call the INS, get the number off of the internet, and tell them ... [snip!] ... send less to him. I had an internet stalker, supposedly a good muslim man....... yeah right lol he was from the UK and SICK”
I`m Canadian , will they do anything for a canadian?? What if they do contact him , and he gets angry and does put my pictures up online??
I'm due August 19th (a girl) & live in Ontario
posted 17th May
Quoting hnaawi ( 26 weeks ) !!!:“ I`m Canadian , will they do anything for a canadian?? What if they do contact him , and he gets angry and does put my pictures up online??”
Is the INS the American immigration ?
I'm due August 19th (a girl) & live in Ontario
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