re: why do people do this???

Quoting nvoytek:“ I wasnt originally going to post anything, but really, she is a coward and a fool and I hope that whatever ... [snip!] ... of your precious children are still etched in my mind. What gorgeous children you all have. And what strong women you must be.”

I want to tahnk you for all your kind and loving words to all us angel mommies.I wish i had pictures of all my angel's babies.But back then they didnt do that.I lost 4 beautiful angel's myself and for that op to say the things she did.Was so unreal to say the least.Your words were so right as to what you said to her.And you did it with grace.I wish i could of done it like that also.But all i saw was red.Again thank you for your sweet and kind words to us all.God bless you always!! have a wonderful weekend and stay safe sweetie. with love and hugs always Linda (switch)

Quoting switch (angel mom of 4):“ I want to tahnk you for all your kind and loving words to all us angel mommies.I wish i had pictures ... [snip!] ... words to us all.God bless you always!! have a wonderful weekend and stay safe sweetie. with love and hugs always Linda (switch)”

Youre quite welcome. When I first read her post, I was seeing red too and decided that instead of responding right then that I'd wait til the next day when I was more level headed. Instead of responding, I went and read the different profiles of the women with angel babies, each story just as heartbreaking as the last. I didnt sleep much that night and spent alot of time questioning God. I woke both of my children and put them in bed with me, held them and just sobbed uncontrollably. Time is so precious and holds no guarantees, and when a woman like that to come and say that angel babies are disgusting and that the mothers deserved it, its times like that where I could go head hunting. She didnt post this topic because she was proving points to get people to possibly see it her way, she posted it to hurt feelings. It was totally uncalled for, and in all honesty, I dont believe that shes had 3 miscarriages, and I dont believe that she's a mother at all. Theres no way she could be.

i to dont believe she ever lost a baby.How could she write stuff like that.I find myself having a bad mouth when i get mad.Other wise i dont talk like that.i lost all my angel's before god blessed me with my 3 living son's.and my youngest son carl's wife lost 2 babies last year.and they are now pg again.looks like Jan 20th 2009.I am so happy for them.If you would please say a prayer for them.I would appreciate it so much.You hold your sweet children.You are a great mother and your children are blessed to have you for there mommy.Again thank you for your kind words.I wouldnt wish a loss of a baby on anyone.Have a great weekend and stay safe.with love Linda(switch)

Quoting switch (angel mom of 4):“ i to dont believe she ever lost a baby.How could she write stuff like that.I find myself having a bad ... [snip!] ... you for your kind words.I wouldnt wish a loss of a baby on anyone.Have a great weekend and stay safe.with love Linda(switch)”

Oh I Love you Linda!!! You always have such nice words to say!
I will def. keep Misty in my prayers. And you with whats happened. Jill

Quoting nvoytek:“ Youre quite welcome. When I first read her post, I was seeing red too and decided that instead of ... [snip!] ... I dont believe that shes had 3 miscarriages, and I dont believe that she's a mother at all. Theres no way she could be. ”

I dont think shes lost a baby either, or for that 3. If she did, she wouldnt have made this post!!
Thanks for your kind words too! Your a sweetie!!

Wtf is wrong with you those people are they are sufffering because they lost there kid. Bitch if that was you then you would be doing the same damn thing go some where with ya self please you are makin me mad.

OMG.... The OP in this thread is the worlds biggest idiot...
I dont believe she has ever lost a child... I have lost 3 and im more than happy to "flaunt" pictures of my little girl (stillborn at 34weeks)... I have the pics up at my house, on my myspace, and all over BG...

To the OP- Are you sure you are really even a mother, because most mothers just have to think about how they would feel if they lost their precious children and they have sympathy for those of who have lost ours. If hearing about people losing thier children bothers you than stay the hell out of S&L.... There is a reason the site has separate forums... oh and just to piss you off.... take a look at my beautiful angel....

Quoting HawaiiNessa:“ OMG.... The OP in this thread is the worlds biggest idiot... I dont believe she has ever lost a child... ... [snip!] ... There is a reason the site has separate forums... oh and just to piss you off.... take a look at my beautiful angel.... ”

I just wanted to say she was precious.
The chick that posted this thread is an idiot. I'm so glad some mothers have the strength to share the pictures of their beautiful angels with people.

Quoting HawaiiNessa:“ OMG.... The OP in this thread is the worlds biggest idiot... I dont believe she has ever lost a child... ... [snip!] ... There is a reason the site has separate forums... oh and just to piss you off.... take a look at my beautiful angel.... ”

precious! thats all i can say. for someone to say they can just get over losing a child is hard to believe you may move on but you never forget i lost one at 20 weeks and yes i have pictures in my home and on the internet. i dont get how if she really lost three she can be so wrong and say the things she did. sharing pictures and talking about my loss helped me get my life back on track. and now that i have i have been blessed with another child that is due in november. im sure it helped other ladies too.

Jenell- yes i am Jils friend from another site.

I also an advocte for stillbirth and i am not afraid to say that ppl like the OP should be sterilized, becasue if they breed our futures are at stake!

Beth -as usual Joshua is looking handsome as ever. I also wish Op would cme back and play i could use a punching bag these days and honestly i just don't have one.

Nessa- what a beautiful little girl. thank you for sharing!

RE: the retouching picutres thing - my favorite pics of my daughter are NOT retouched, but i do love this pic i posted it is the only one i have of her dressed.

my daughters blog

Quoting HawaiiNessa:“ OMG.... The OP in this thread is the worlds biggest idiot... I dont believe she has ever lost a child... ... [snip!] ... There is a reason the site has separate forums... oh and just to piss you off.... take a look at my beautiful angel.... ”

Your baby girl is so cute. I am sitting here crying i just read all 56 pages I would reather read a story about an angle baby anyday then someone that is just all about her self. god bless u Nessa

"RE: the retouching picutres thing - my favorite pics of my daughter are NOT retouched, but i do love this pic i posted it is the only one i have of her dressed.

my daughters blog"


I totally agree with you and just looked at your daughters blog and she was so beautiful! My favorite ones were the un-retouched too. She is truly a little angel and I'm so sorry about your loss! We need a forum like this on gaga b/c you never know what can happen. Pregnancy and delivery are very scary and a total miracle when everything goes right. It shouldnt be taken for granted and this girl really has no heart to be saying the things she said. I cant imagine losing a child the way some of you have. I miscarried a twin early on and am still having a hard time with it even though my other little girl held on tight and is ok now, its STILL hard. I wish I had been on gaga when that happened. It would have helped alot and maybe i wouldnt be so paranoid now.