re: why do people do this???

Wow - OP, seriously?! If it ,offends you dont look. For many of us we have developed friendships. And if my friend looses her baby and wants to post a pic I WILL be offended when some nobody starts saying its offensive. Even if a child doesnt take a breath outside of the womb it doesnt make the love that the mother had for their child any less. If that mother wants to post the pic of her angel, who the hell are you to dictate where she can or cant post it. I would be MORE offended by the posts of abortions - not miscarriages and deaths. Just because a woman looses her child doesnt mean she stops being a MOTHER. Once a mother, always a mother, and this is a site for mothers - so they have every right in the world to be here. How DARE you imply otherwise.

Quoting merbobear:“ next time you see a thread written by a mother who is mourning the loss of her child, why don't you just take your own advice?”

exactly!!! 

Quoting alitissaaa 1975:“ i really do not understand why people post topics on their dead babies?? i mean this is a place where ... [snip!] ... i cant do anything about loosing 3 but i dont have angel ann. and bullshit like that...post your topics someplace else enough!!”

I guess I can understand why some poeple may not want to see pictures posted like that. But as far as talking to people about the loss of a baby is sometimes comforting to others, knowing that they are not the only ones out there that have lost someone they truely love and cared about! this website is for a lot of things. not just pregnant mommies

i would never show a pregnant women a pic of my dead baby thats just cruel and discusting ...what happened to morals

Quoting Kailyn's Mama:“ Wow - OP, seriously?! If it ,offends you dont look. For many of us we have developed friendships. And ... [snip!] ... a mother, and this is a site for mothers - so they have every right in the world to be here. How DARE you imply otherwise.”

     
Like I said, if you dont like it then leave. Nobody is keeping you here, in fact most of us really dont want you here.

Quoting alitissaaa 1975:“ i would never show a pregnant women a pic of my dead baby thats just cruel and discusting ...what happened to morals”

If it bugs you so much then dont fucking look. There are forums for suffering and loss, it is easy to avoid.

Quoting alitissaaa 1975:“ i would never show a pregnant women a pic of my dead baby thats just cruel and discusting ...what happened to morals”

I have never thought it discusting to see a baby. I have a friend on here who has a pic of her baby that she lost with still birth and it is a beautiful pic.
That is hearless and wrong of you. Now I am getting bothered and discusted by you

I would just like to mention that I have never been "surprised" by a picture of an angel baby.  By & large, the women who post those photos give a "warning" in the topic heading or in the first paragraph..They usually say "angel baby" in the title.  Also, many of them are posted in s&l.  

I have to say that the first time I looked at a photo of someone's angel baby, I was shocked and saddened by the image.  But that mother didn't do anything wrong by sharing a picture of her child.  Seeing that baby's lifeless body made my heart break for her parents, and of course it makes you worry a little bit a bout your own pregnancy.  That doesn't mean that it should not be shared, particularly in a forum titled SUFFERING AND LOSS.  What do you think that topic should be about?  suffering from a receding hair line and hair loss?  NO.  it's about something that goes to teh core of some women.  THEIR CHILD.  We all come here to talk about our kids!  Whether they are in the womb, playing in the playground, passed away, or  not even conceived yet!  

Others have said this, but I think it bears repeating...if you do'nt like a topic, jus tdon't read it!  

Quoting alitissaaa 1975:“ i went though it 3 times so i know how it feels just saying to post that shit someplace else. and you ... [snip!] ... someplace else. and you know something get over it and maybe if you stop counting ann. for dead babies you can go on ..i have”

So let me get this right, YOU can post topics and if wedon't like them then we need to go the fuck on. But we are not allowed to post things in suffering and loss( because thats what its there for!!!) because You dontlike them.
Who the hell do you think you are ? Why do you think you should march the hell in this message board and tell other respected members to not post shit? You can go to another boardand get support. I'm not saying you are a bitch maybe your post came across in a bad way, but dont tell me or anyone else here to get over the dealth of our babies. You might have, but you are also pregnant and moving on and the pain is still fresh for us! You certainly do not sound like someone who has had a miscarriage epsecially not 3.

Quoting alitissaaa 1975:“ i would never show a pregnant women a pic of my dead baby thats just cruel and discusting ...what happened to morals”

THEN DONT GO INTO S&L and dont open threads that say "angel baby" or something like that. No one forces you to look. Hell, get the hell off BG and you will never have to worry about it again. Stop acting like people are tying you down and forcing you to stare at their pics. Furthermore, these "dead babies" that you speak of - any pic I have seen is tasteful. The baby looks as if s/he is sleeping peacefully. Its not like they are grusome or disturbing.

you are all hippocrates .... i have every right to post a topic on what i feel strong about and if you cant take it dont confess your opinoion, but dont think your harsh words can really intimadate me.

Quoting alitissaaa 1975:“ i would never show a pregnant women a pic of my dead baby thats just cruel and discusting ...what happened to morals”

I think your attitude and horrible grammar is cruel and disGusting to inflict on the rest of us.

And morals have NOTHING to do with grief and compassion. You need to learn some compassion.

Quoting alitissaaa 1975:“ i would never show a pregnant women a pic of my dead baby thats just cruel and discusting ...what happened to morals”

What happened to your morals? Do you even have any yourself ?

Quoting Kailyn's Mama:“ THEN DONT GO INTO S&L and dont open threads that say "angel baby" or something like that. No one ... [snip!] ... any pic I have seen is tasteful. The baby looks as if s/he is sleeping peacefully. Its not like they are grusome or disturbing.”

bitch go fuck yourself .....you get out!!!! bitch you think your all big and bad hahahahaha fuck off

Quoting alitissaaa 1975:“ you are all hippocrates .... i have every right to post a topic on what i feel strong about and if you ... [snip!] ... feel strong about and if you cant take it dont confess your opinoion, but dont think your harsh words can really intimadate me.”

lol - WE are the hypocrites??