re: why do people do this???

This site is dedicated to all aspects of pregnancy and parenting...of which miscarriage/stillbirth/babies who passed from SIDS, etc...are an intricate part of.

you my dear, are an imbecile.

Quoting alitissaaa 1975:“ why is it mean?? just go to another site that deals with this not on this site ...its disturbing to others who see dead babies...especially when your pregnant”

Why dont you go to another site that doesnt have mothers who have lost their children. This site is for support of every mother, including ones who have suffered a loss.

Quoting alitissaaa 1975:“ grow the fuck up bitch ....and if you dont like my topic get the steppin.”

Well you obviously don't like the suffering and loss topics, right? Sounds a little hypocritical!

Quoting Tazar:“ this will get interesting. And ya ppl need support here too. If you had this site when you lost your 3 wouldn't you want to talk to someone?”

yes i did but not to people who are pregnant and especially not strangers..i had friends and family for support.

Quoting DemonBellyX:“ Uhm. There is a Suffering and Loss Thread. We're not just here to help other moms and moms to be, we're ... [snip!] ... need to express their loss. If my daughter died today, I know -I- would need a HELL of a lot of support. So back the fuck off.”

     

Quoting alitissaaa 1975:“ yes i did but not to people who are pregnant and especially not strangers..i had friends and family for support.”

so what aobut suffering and loss.
Why is it there.
Doy uo not think they should post there?

Quoting alitissaaa 1975:“ i went though it 3 times so i know how it feels just saying to post that shit someplace else. and you ... [snip!] ... someplace else. and you know something get over it and maybe if you stop counting ann. for dead babies you can go on ..i have”

Hunny I finally had a baby successfully but you know what I wont because that was my child s if your going to degrade someone who wants to celebrate their ann. then grow the fuck up. Everyone has a right to do that so don't fucking judge anyone on here because they decide to do that its hard. But a selfless women like you wouldn't understand that.

Quoting alitissaaa 1975:“ grow the fuck up bitch ....and if you dont like my topic get the steppin.”

next time you see a thread written by a mother who is mourning the loss of her child, why don't you just take your own advice?

everyone grieves differently. You may have found forgetting works best for you but that doesn't mean other people are the same way.

It's pretty cruel and heartless to be so mean, telling people who are grieving to get over it and post their "shit" someplace else, when that's what those forums (S&L) are for.

Nick and Mara wouldn't have made those forums if they didn't want people using them and talking about that stuff on this site. It is welcomed, and your extremely offensive and hurtful attitude and opinion is not.

How insensitive can you possibly be?? This is not called pregnant-ladies-only-gaga.com. It is baby-gaga.com. It is for ALL baby stories, good or bad!

oh get over it ..you all are so sensative and to be frank stop bitchen about your so called morals ...i think its discusting to post pics of dead babies ..keep them to yourselfs and get therapy fast.

You said you don't like seeing the pictures of dead babies? Have you ever held one of your dead babies or were they all early miscarriages?

(Ladies.. remember the 'flag post as abusive' button is your friend)

I think we all agree on this then GO SOMEWHERE ELSE YOU HEARTLESS BITCH.

It's probably just as hard for them to post on this site since the majority of the people are expecting or delivered healthy babies... I know what you are saying sometimes I get freaked out when I see a picture or hear a story about stillbirth or m/c's it's every pregnant women's fear BUT sometimes they offer A LOT of insight as to what to look out for, etc...