Quoting Super Kame Vegeta:" So I'm on day 3 of my placebo in my birth control and still no period. So I voiced my slight concern ... [snip!] ... know we couldn't handle another kid, but I just don't know if I could live with the guilt of doing something like that. quote"
Honestly, if I were in those shoes, I would have to choose abortion. Not that it is an easy decision to make at all but explain to your child why you are growing a baby in your tummy and it will never come home. That would be my worry.
My son was a "surprise". We were in now way ready for him. I had twin girls that I was trying to raise pretty much alone. His job was not what it had been in the past and I was not able to work. We made it work though. My son is now 2 and we are just fine. You always find a way to adjust if you choose that path.
That said, the thought of abortion did cross our minds. We discussed it in great length. It was just something that we weren't able to do. We struggled with infertility for YEARS before we were suprised and blessed with the twins. We always said we would take as many as god would give us. Well, we should have chose our words a little more carefully. lol Hubby wanted a boy and we did want a big family so we adjusted. All is fine now.
Moral of the story, do what suits your situation best. What you and your husband come up with together is what you should do. Don't discount his thoughts as you wouldn't want him to discount yours.