re: Abortion - WWYD?

I just went through this with SO not too long ago. We had a false positive. Very startling. We talked it over and still couldn't come to an impasse by the time we actually found out it was a false positive. We were both completely dumbfounded on abortion or not. Though he said he would support me in whatever my choice was as it was my choice, my body. We weren't and won't be ready for another baby anytime soon. Its a really hard decision to make alone so you should probably at some point talk to DH about looking at both sides to it. Its your body, your life. But its your family and your marriage that hangs in the balance. Obviously one of you have to switch sides to make it work.
I know it is common sense but I wouldn't stress about it before you know for sure. In hindsight 5 days of stomach wrenching stressing over possibly being pregnant was not worth it when I got my BFN. If you are pregnant waiting a few days to think it over won't hurt anything.

Quoting ♥Frodolicious♥:"   Oh grow up. It only gets panties in a knot if you act like an idiot. If abortion is what's right for her family, then that's what she should do. It's all about what's right for her family."

I could care less if she decides to have the baby or not.She's a big girl. I just know from experience that talking about abortion/religion and politics are touchy subjects.

This might ease your mind a bit, there are several times a year where I'll be 3-4 days into my placebo and haven't started yet, only to start on the 5th day. What pill are you on?

Quoting NevviesMom:" I could care less if she decides to have the baby or not.She's a big girl. I just know from experience that talking about abortion/religion and politics are touchy subjects."

Couldn't** care less.

And this forum is protected. There should be zero issues here.

Quoting NevviesMom:" I could care less if she decides to have the baby or not.She's a big girl. I just know from experience that talking about abortion/religion and politics are touchy subjects."

Not on here so much, it isn't. Especially in this particular part of the site. It only bothers people when others start trouble in AS.

Quoting NevviesMom:" I could care less if she decides to have the baby or not.She's a big girl. I just know from experience that talking about abortion/religion and politics are touchy subjects."

Then exit. She posted this in AS not to be taunted by people.

Quoting NevviesMom:" I could care less if she decides to have the baby or not.She's a big girl. I just know from experience that talking about abortion/religion and politics are touchy subjects."

look at the forum this is in, this is where people come to talk about abortions. bashing is not allowed nor is forcing your opinion on someone. this is a safe house for people to talk in.

I was hard core pro-choice till I got pregnant... Lol. I didn't think I could handle it. My DH (boyfriend at the time) agreed it was best and we couldn't do it. But I broke down last minute and then wanted to adopt. But then someone told me something that changed my mind...."don't make a permanent desision for a temporary solution." we had no money, I was depressed and suicidal and on 6 different meds. We had no place to live and no jobs. But we decided to keep the baby. Our situation would t be like this forever. We set our hearts and minds to do whatever we could. He got a job and has opportunity to expand and hopefully in 3 years he'll be making 100k a year, I'm able to not work. I'm in Counceling and off all meds, we are looking for a better home, and we are happily married and excited to meet our baby girl in a little over 2 months.
If its your situation then maybe put more thought into it. But if you want to abort I'm no one to judge. Hope it works out  
Financial problems don't last forever.... Lol, me and DH are 10k in debt and live check to check. It's hard but we make it work.

Quoting Vindictive:" Couldn't** care less. And this forum is protected. There should be zero issues here."

  

Quoting Vindictive:" Couldn't** care less. And this forum is protected. There should be zero issues here."

Thanks Tips  

Quoting NevviesMom:" Personally, I'm pro life. This is a question that could get a lot of panties in a knot lol"

not in AS it shouldn't. im pretty sure if people shake things up in here it gets modded. Noone has any business in here if it gets their panties in a wad. Its not meant for D&D or tdc. People come to AS for advice and support.

Quoting SerialKiller™:" look at the forum this is in, this is where people come to talk about abortions. bashing is not allowed nor is forcing your opinion on someone. this is a safe house for people to talk in."

Wow all you people are so touchy. I'm NOT judging her for doing what she wants to do. ALL I said in the beginning was that I was pro choice. If anything, you all are judging me for my choice.

Also whats AS??

Quoting NevviesMom:" Wow all you people are so touchy. I'm NOT judging her for doing what she wants to do. ALL I said in ... [snip!] ... do. ALL I said in the beginning was that I was pro choice. If anything, you all are judging me for my choice. Also whats AS??"

abortion survivors

Quoting NevviesMom:" Wow all you people are so touchy. I'm NOT judging her for doing what she wants to do. ALL I said in ... [snip!] ... do. ALL I said in the beginning was that I was pro choice. If anything, you all are judging me for my choice. Also whats AS??"

Abortion Survivors. It's a forum specifically FOR this, and it's protected. No one starts anything here unless they want to be modded. This is a safehouse for people considering abortion.

Quoting NevviesMom:" Wow all you people are so touchy. I'm NOT judging her for doing what she wants to do. ALL I said in ... [snip!] ... do. ALL I said in the beginning was that I was pro choice. If anything, you all are judging me for my choice. Also whats AS??"

Abortion survivors. It is a protected forum. If you aren't offering support, you need to exit the thread