I need to vent...

I really can not stand my Fiance. Everything he does makes me sooo mad. I know it is the pregnancy hormones but I don't know how I am going to make it 4 more months without killing him. We do not get along at all anymore. It is sad that we use to be soo close and now we are lucky to say 10 nice words to each other a day. I am glad he works so I do not have to and I guess I am being a selfish bitch but he goes to work today at 8 am after he drops Caitlin off at school and just now gets home. (His family owns a reception hall and they had a huge function tonight). Well anyways I know he is tired and worked all day but he can't even say two words to me before he sitting on the couch playing his stupid fuckin xbox. If I ever met the person that thought of the xbox, I would kill them. Every single night that is all he does and he asks me why I go to bed so early. What am I suppose to do? Sit here and watch him play his stupid game. I stayed up and waited for him to get home and for what reason I do not know. I didn't even get a kiss hello. I just got yelled at because I let Caitlin go to bed early (because she is 7 and tired... you idiot) and that means she will wake us up early in the morning and he wants to sleep in. And he knows for a fact, he will sleep in because it will be me who gets up with her and god I hate when he complains he is tired, maybe if he didn't stay up all night playing his stupid game and went to bed before 5 in the morning he wouldn't be tired. Sorry for bitching I just don't feel like fighting with him tonight, it was easier just to write it all out on here. Thanks for listening..

Hey.....vent away!!! It gives me something to read and reminds me that I'm not the only person with the X-Box problems!!

I ask him nicely to stop playing and watch a movie with me or just hang out with me for god sakes but no. X-Box is more important than me. Sometimes I think about hitting it with a bat til it breaks.. I was never so mean before. Pregnancy has made me one grumpy woman.

Mines playing it right now, He comes home from work, and plays that damn thing, i get him off it everyonce in awhile, but most of the time, when hes not working or sleeping he's playing that stupid thing. Then he'll hand me the stupid controler thing and say wanna play..it's like,
yeah.......... or NOT!
he wants me to stay up and watch him play.

well im glad im not the only one who hates their fiance ha!

" i hate everything all about you, why do i love you?" lol

You sound like me a couple months ago, except it was his PS3. He'd come home for his lunch break & play the game the whole hour, then by the time I get home from work, he's getting ready to go to work. One week, I only seen him eating or playing his game (or both at the same time). Try to sit him downtell him what's bothing you. I know that sounds so cliche' but when I pointed out some little stuff, he swears he didn't realize he was doing it& he didn't know it bothered me just to sit there & watch a stupid video game. Tell your SO you miss hanging out w/him. I'm sorry if it doesn't help!

Mine too. And I don't know about ya'll but staying up watching him shoot people or whatever the hell kind of game he is playing does not sound like a fun Friday night to me. His comback to me always is, you are always on the computer on BG or Myspace so I have to play Xbox. And that is just plain Bullshit. I am only on because I have nothing else to do. I could always go to the bed room and watch tv or go to sleep but I like to be near him so I get on the computer. Even our 7 year old daughter says how much she hates xbox because that is all Daddy ever does and he doesn't get it.. MEN!!!

Quoting AbbyLynn'sMomma:“ Mine too. And I don't know about ya'll but staying up watching him shoot people or whatever the hell ... [snip!] ... Even our 7 year old daughter says how much she hates xbox because that is all Daddy ever does and he doesn't get it.. MEN!!!”

Haha, coming from his child i would think he might get it lol. I already layed down the law of 1 hr. a day for our son(if its really a boy) a day, and no bloody games. My bf says the same about BG, when i complain about anything, he says well your on BG.... stupid.

So now... my fiance new puppy (he just had to have even when I said a puppy and a baby was just way to much) just shit everywhere and he (the stupid ass fiance) just sits there playing his game. So I take the dog outside and come in and clean up the shit and he doesn't say a word... I didn't want this dog. I already have my hands full. (We just got our Kitchen put in after hurricane katrina and have contractors constantly here making a mess) and a 7 year old to take care of and a baby on the way and the house is in total shambles and he wonders why I am soo fuckin stressed and he gets a fuckin dog. GOD, I WANT TO SCREAM!

Quoting AbbyLynn'sMomma:“ So now... my fiance new puppy (he just had to have even when I said a puppy and a baby was just way to ... [snip!] ... and the house is in total shambles and he wonders why I am soo fuckin stressed and he gets a fuckin dog. GOD, I WANT TO SCREAM!”

Oh no no no......don't stress and DEFINITELY stay away from animal feces!! I know easier said than done!! Maybe you should go take a bath and ignore him.....

Quoting Miss Katrina:“ Oh no no no......don't stress and DEFINITELY stay away from animal feces!! I know easier said than done!! Maybe you should go take a bath and ignore him.....”

That's exactly what I was thinking. I just bought a new bubble bath and a new book. Taking a bath is my favorite thing to do. I just was hoping he would hang out with me tonight but oh well. To the bath tub I go.

Thank you ya'll for listening to me bitch. It is nice to be able to bitch every once in a while without my fiance getting annoyed and telling me that is all I do or calling my mom and listen to her try to analyze everything. I have like no friends down south here (I am from PA) and most of my friends up there are in college and a hubby and children are the last thing on their mind. Thank You!

Those darn Pregnancy Hormones.. but you do have a point.. and men will never see it our way no matter how much we(b#$@$)   which is sad.. I wonder how they would feel BEING pregnant 24/7 for 9mo's. atleast they can tune us out when we complain.. but we cant tune the lil baby they helpd make. Just hang in there, 4mo will pass soon enough and hopefully you 2 will be 2x as close as ever before. but VENT all you want.. atleast you know all of your listeners have been there/are going thro the same thing with their hubbys/bF's. and we wont tune ya out. Good luck