Quoting Jenn & 2 girls ♥:" For any moms or moms to be my question is have you went through pregnancies without the support & help from the father and after the baby was born the stepped up to be a father and help??"
Quoting Brynn's Mommy (::" I did it on my own. I do not regret it one bit. My daughter's dad was abusive. He would push and shove ... [snip!] ... for the way things turn out. No parent wants their child to grow up in a split family, but sometimes it's for the better."Okay not trying to be rude or ne thing but if your with another man who is more of a father figure then brynns real daddy and he sees her every other weekend your goin to confuse that little girl, Does she call your new fiance daddy or her real dad= daddy when my son seen his real dad for the first two times he was scared to death and cried bc the only man he calls daddy is my fiance it has to be very confusing to children.
Quoting Jaidens Mommy :" Okay not trying to be rude or ne thing but if your with another man who is more of a father figure then ... [snip!] ... two times he was scared to death and cried bc the only man he calls daddy is my fiance it has to be very confusing to children."
Quoting Brynn's Mommy (::" I'm not an idiot. I have never had Brynn associate my fiance with being "daddy," that is never fair ... [snip!] ... from her either. Not trying to be rude by any means, but it is definitely a sensitive question because I hear it frequentl
i understand what your saying i dnt like to see children confused about whos there parents and whos not. With me my BD is a bad person for my LO to be around he does marijuana, cocaine, and pop pills, I dnt wnt my baby to be around all that. My fiance has been there for my baby he knows hes not the dad but he is more of a father then my LO sperm donor. like i was saying he has only seen his son twice in a year and not even for that long i dnt understand why so many guys walk out when they get a girl prego, I wasnt tryn to be rude and i understand where your coming from. i was just wondering
Quoting Jaidens Mommy :" "
Quoting Brynn's Mommy (::" I understand. I wasn't trying to be either but like I said no matter how much I wish I didn't have to ... [snip!] ... my fiance has only been around Brynn since she was about 10 months old and she already had a understanding of who daddy was."My fiance has been there for jaiden since he was first born which was 9-19-11 he is almost a year old and i am grateful that he took over for BD but i do have to agree with you it should be your daughters choice of who she wants to call daddy and who she dont. Like i said some guys arent meant to be fathers and its harder on the girl. but i am proud of you for leaving him and finding yourself a new guy that treats u alot better most girls who went through the same things your did wouldnt have the courage to leave the person they "love" i am very proud of you. good luck with your new relationship