16. with 1 child. pregnant with 2nd. advice?

im in school right now. and we have a daycare near our school. its a private catholic school. my dad says if i keep this one that i wont get my bmw for my 17th birthday. i think thats a sad way of trying to "make me make the right decision" i am a good mother to my son. i take care of him everyday and do NOT mooch off my parents besides a roof over my head. i have paid for all of my bills and my sons bills and most of my boyfriends things as well. i mean we dont get a lot of extras but we make do with what we have. my family is well off but i do not let that make me entitled to their assets. theyve asked if they can buy me things for the baby. i kindly told them no thank you. my education is not being hampered in any way. i go to school everyday. and i pay for daycare as well. another child would really not put to much stress on me besides not being able to go to prom or hang out with friends big deal . but im so excited to have this baby and wish others would see that not all young moms are stupid and unprepared. granted yes my first i was unprepared because it was unplanned

Boo hoo....I wish my only worry was "not getting a BMW"


Ugh has school started yet anyone?

You don't mooch off your parents but you are concerned about daddy not buying you a BMW?

Quoting One in the oven{4/2/13}:" Boo hoo....I wish my only worry was "not getting a BMW" Ugh has school started yet anyone?"

. i said nothing about not getting it. i just stated thats what my dad told me to try to get an abortion. i dont care if i get a bmw or not. i think you need to GO BACK to school. no offense. but your reading skills arent really up to par

Quoting One in the oven{4/2/13}:" Boo hoo....I wish my only worry was "not getting a BMW" Ugh has school started yet anyone?"

Duuudde. I want someone who would be willing to fix me a car.

I would earn it.. but no one has ever offered me a car.

Although I did obtain my moms for the longest time...

Quoting Coco&Mali:" You don't mooch off your parents but you are concerned about daddy not buying you a BMW?"

im not concerned. i said thats what my dad told me to try to "make the right decision" meaning get an abortion. please re read.

the first one wasn't planned, so this one was? it's your baby, your body...your decision. though the BMW shouldn't even be part of this discussion. If you pay for everything you can buy your own car...

wish my parents could buy me a BMW...
lame.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jonathan's Mommy+))):</b>" . i said nothing about not getting it. i just stated thats what my dad told me to try to get an abortion. ... [snip!] ... care if i get a bmw or not. i think you need to GO BACK to school. no offense. but your reading skills arent really up to par"</blockquote>




I did read correctly. Sorry If the interpretation of stupid isn't up to your standard.


Learn to spell and use grammar before popping out more kids and whining about not getting something you didn't even earn.

Quoting Kristin B.:" the first one wasn't planned, so this one was? it's your baby, your body...your decision. though the ... [snip!] ... be part of this discussion. If you pay for everything you can buy your own car... wish my parents could buy me a BMW... lame."

yes this one was planned for. the bmw was in the discussion to show my dad and mom arent really supportive or even knowing how to help me or give me advice if they are trying to bribe me to get an abortion

My advice would be to abort and get a BMW. I'd abort 10 pregnancies, if I could get a free BMW. Shoot.

Quoting One in the oven{4/2/13}:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jonathan's Mommy+))):</b>" . i said nothing about not getting ... [snip!] ... Learn to spell and use grammar before popping out more kids and whining about not getting something you didn't even earn."

you shoudl learn how to spell as well hun. "IF" not "I"

You want advice? I know I'm going to get some people irritated but here it goes.... Keep your nose in your books and your legs out of the air. You have plenty of time to have children later. Enjoy being young while you can.

i think those comments are a bit mean she might of mentioned the bmw but i think the main reason of the post is for some advice.If you feel as though u can bring up another child then go ahead,you sound like you are doing a great job with your first...i get offers from family to have things brought for me but i prefer to buy them myself.
If your main concern is the BMW then i think you should look into suitable forms of contraception for the future but if its whether or not you think you will be ok with a second child im sure you will be fine,just have a good think about dont make any decisions whilst angry or under pressure

If he doesn't buy you the bmw tell him to feel free and pass that smurf this way!

Quoting Jonathan's Mommy+))):" yes this one was planned for. the bmw was in the discussion to show my dad and mom arent really supportive ... [snip!] ... mom arent really supportive or even knowing how to help me or give me advice if they are trying to bribe me to get an abortion"

Don't listen to them. It's slightly sad and ridiculous that your parents would think that you'd chose a car over a child...hope you wont.